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  • At some point, I feel like theres gotta be something they can do that will get us all to say, you know what, work or not, fuck this. But, we haven't found it. I cant say I'm not guilty of using that excuse myself. I just bought a house, can't exactly afford to rock the boat. But, what's the alternative? Much worse than losing our jobs.

  • That will be difficult. The deltaV burn to get to the sun would be astronomical. But, I do feel like it would be worth the effort to build a rocket that big. Special circumstances and all. Alternatively, we could just launch them into space with no destination at all.

  • I don't think removing a corporation from existence would fix anything. We have a capitalist system killing the planet that has been extended to basically every country on the planet thanks to U.S. hegemony (which thankfully is coming to an end)

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  • I wouldnt say it's something you can't or even shouldn't do. But if it's making you feel bad, take a step back and ask yourself why it makes you feel that way. Keep in mind, people with ADHD often have issues with low self-esteem. That goes double if you've had an kind of trauma. You should be kinder to yourself about these feelings you are having.

  • ^This

    OP spooked it good. Next time announce yourself when you come into the room and this shouldn't happen. Also, do all that other stuff commenter's are recommending, but mostly the annoucing yourself.

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  • Dating is not fun. It wasn't fun in my 20s. And if I had to do it in my mid thirties, God have mercy on my soul.

    The only advice I can give you is to put yourself in situations where you meet people. You don't have to go out looking for a relationship to find it.

    I think its better to just find like minded people to do activities with, and eventually you will find someone who likes you, and you mesh with.

    The road to that place is long and sucks ass, but you'll get there.

    As for the suicidal ideation, I've also been there. Go out and exercise, and touch the grass, socialize with other people, and if you drink, stop doing it so much. But, also, get enough sleep! That is easier said than done, I know.

    Once I started getting enough sleep, trying to set a bedtime for myself, and if necessary, drug myself with sleep aids to go to sleep, my suicidal ideation pretty much disappeared.

    Now, if you do all that and you're still having suicidal ideation, see a therapist if you can. Best of luck, life is hard.

  • There was a printing shop where I used to live. This was back in 2017ish. I lived there 3 years, and would walk by it all the time bcz i lived close by. I never saw a single customer go in there in the three years I lived there. They were money laundering.

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  • It sounds like your partner isn't willing to meet you halfway. Relationships are about compromise, which you are trying to do. She does not seem to be willing to compromise in the other direction, and understand that you have what is essentially a disability. I also have adhd, and it sometimes causes issues in my relationship. But my partner and I both try really hard to compromise and be supportive of eachother. Your partner is not doing that. You might consider having a frank conversation about how she isn't reciprocating to your needs, and expects you to do what she wants only. That's not a healthy relationship.