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  • The problem, as I see it, is: You are rotating around yourself. All the time. Round and round.

    Humans are made for relationships. Not just man-woman, but relationships in the most general sense.

    You are not living any strong relationships, and therefore your life feels meaningless.

    So, the solution is: start to invest your time into people. Nursing wasn't a bad start at all. But you do it for a job = for making money, so there's not much coming back to you.

    My advice is:

    Do something for people in such a way that nothing comes back to you. I'm not talking about money, but your time. It does not need to be much. But do it very regularly. That way you will be able to escape that rotating around yourself.

    You are going to meet new people, and there will be some wonderful people among them. Some others, too, but you are strong enough not to get scared off easily.

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  • Good things that you are doing there. My greatest respect!!

    Bureaucracy is one thing, but there are also some "what if" - decisions that you should think about. Please understand that I mean well, even if these questions may sound not so easy.

    What if the kid suddenly wants to leave you and go back to the parents. Who decides, who shall have the final say?

    What if the kid gets sick or even disabled and it costs a fortune. Are you willing to pay it all, however much it may be?

    What if a truck rolls you over tomorrow. Should the kid inherit your house and all?

  • All your current memory is instantly transferred

    So, you are a normal Korean person, but lacking all the knowlege of how to behave in the culture where you live.

    You are getting strong conflicts with normal people and with the law every day. Very soon nobody will give you a chance anymore.

    Conclusion: you cannot survive.