"My partner reacted negatively when I said no to something they wanted."
This one could use a little more granularity I think. Angry, insulting, and violent I can see, but what about sad, or disappointed; could those not be seen as "negative"? Could even be abuse the other way if one person expects the other to always be cheerful about not letting them have their way.
I'm wanting to do that, and steam has made it possible, but I have just a couple of games holding me back still. Not the games' fault, it's just that I'd have to buy them again on steam and I'm po'.
They already do in public.🤮 I'll fight them as long as I can on my own computer though.