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  • You’re going to have to accept that it’ll hurt for a long time. Give yourself some grace and let yourself be heartbroken for as long as you need. It sucks, but you’ll snap out of it eventually.

    Two things that will probably help:

    1. Hang out with people you like
    2. Do things that make you proud of what you did that day

    It’s easy to skip into a hole and wallow there. While you have to let yourself grieve, you also have to put in the work to have a constructive life. Treat it as a responsibility to get up and do something each day.

  • Omg I fucking hate food blogs. Nobody wants an essay on the history of lentils followed by a 5-page story about the first time the author tried coriander!

    Just give me a bullet point list you assholes! I don’t care if you get more ad money if I have to scroll for 30 seconds.

  • I think a good strategy is to start on Lemmy.World until you discover a solid list of communities you want to follow. Then switch to a smaller instance that aligns with your interests and bring all your subscriptions with you.

    If you start on a small instance you’ll have to do a lot more work to discover communities, since they mostly won’t appear in your All feed. Plus, you’re doing that small instance a favor by bringing interesting communities to their All feed.

  • I go to the home page of the instance using my browser, click the “trending” drop-down at the top, then click “explore communities”.

    It’s weird that it’s buried under “trending”, but at least it’s there.

    Note - I’m doing this in iOS. Not sure if it’s the same in all systems.