From what you said it sounds like it's good and over. Time is all that's left, and time is the only cure for a broken heart. I know it sounds trite and corny but it's true! I've been so broken up it physically hurt. It will be better, and feel better in time.
If you're anything like me you'll always keep a part of your heart for him regardless of what happens. But if you're growing as a person your heart will only grow. And someday soon his section will be a teeny tiny little footnote, something to look back on fondly.
Now the trick is not to make any dumb choices in the immediate future. You're hurting, and it's gonna be real hard not to let that hurt inform your decision making process. My advice: lay low. Hang with some good friends, eat some junk food. Spend a couple of weeks doing nothing. You know you're truly ready to move on when, in those idle moments, your bored rather than hurt.
I was a trucker for a while. I would always get over if I could, but it doesn't always work out that way. The amount of people that assumed a 40000 lb vehicle would dance out of their way so they could merge at 20mph less than prevailing traffic speed was too damn high.
I haven't owned a personal auto in 12 years. I hold a class a license (to drive semi trucks). Our dependance on cars has destroyed the earth and our society. We've salted the earth with parking lots. We're an angry and fat people. Fuck cars.
All this woke ass anti cigarette shit! Y'all have obviously never enjoyed a cup of coffee and a smoke on a still summer morn. A post coital puff as your lover plays her fingers through your chest hair like smoke on the water. Good lord I miss cigarettes!
But seriously never smoke, it smells terrible, will ruin your health, and is an all around terrible proposition.
They're rent seeking douchbags who don't add value to shit. If there was ever an advertisement for full on vodka and cigarettes for breakfast bolshevism it's these assholes.
MintyFresh @ MintyFresh @lemmy.world Posts 29Comments 600Joined 1 yr. ago
From what you said it sounds like it's good and over. Time is all that's left, and time is the only cure for a broken heart. I know it sounds trite and corny but it's true! I've been so broken up it physically hurt. It will be better, and feel better in time.
If you're anything like me you'll always keep a part of your heart for him regardless of what happens. But if you're growing as a person your heart will only grow. And someday soon his section will be a teeny tiny little footnote, something to look back on fondly.
Now the trick is not to make any dumb choices in the immediate future. You're hurting, and it's gonna be real hard not to let that hurt inform your decision making process. My advice: lay low. Hang with some good friends, eat some junk food. Spend a couple of weeks doing nothing. You know you're truly ready to move on when, in those idle moments, your bored rather than hurt.
Good luck and lots of love!!!!