If you're not attracted to anyone "in your league", but you cannot choose who you are attracted to, then what are you supposed to do?
MNByChoice @ MNByChoice @midwest.social Posts 20Comments 1,592Joined 2 yr. ago
MNByChoice @ MNByChoice @midwest.social
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Stop focusing on your looks. Become someone who: likes themselves, is funny, is caring, is growing their career, is good fixing things, is strong, is a leader, helps others, can sing well, or something else.
Unexpectedly, showing progress is nearly as important than the end state. Someone growing their career and becoming funny, gets most of the points for having a good career and being funny (note actual progress, not day dreaming).
My advice is to pursue whatever you guess will help you like yourself, but that is not necessary.