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  • Yes. For years now. And I am horrified.

    I am a teacher and I've had students who could not find the article about lions from the animal encyclopedia I handed to them. And when I helped them to find it, one started crying, one tried to read it (stopped after a minute or so) and one asked "Isn't there some lion video we could watch instead?". It was two pages with a lot of pictures. But it was too much for these 5th graders.

    Reading proper books has become almost impossible to kids because their attention span is almost non-existent with written material.

    We've tried to add more emphasis on basic reading skills in the early grades for some time now, but it seems to have very little effect.

    1. Do not let Mom ever have brain surgery.
    2. Make grandma see a different doctor. The current one is clueless.
    3. Bust Dad for smoking in secret and force him to stop. You know how it can be done.
    4. Idea of Mom and Dad getting a divorce is a scary one, but it probably would make their and your life a lot better.
    5. Start jogging daily. You'll never like it, but you need to do it to.
    6. Ask her out when you're 15. She likes you too.
    7. Start taking guitar and piano lessons. Turns out you have musical talent, you just haven't realized it yet.
    8. No, I won't tell you how to get rich. You'd fuck your life up royally with unlimited money.
  • When we met, we were both pretty broken from past experiences. She had had a line of bad relationships and I had my own issues. She was creative, smart and very beautiful, way out of my league.

    With her I was happy for the first time in my adult life and I loved her just as she was. We enjoyed the same things and our friends talked of us as a "perfect couple". And for a time everything truly was pretty perfect.

    Then one day she called me and said: "I'm sorry. I can't do this anymore."

    After the initial shock I managed to say: "I love you and want you to be happy. If this makes you happy, so be it."

    And that was it. I was emotionally devastated.

    I never saw her again. Nine months later a common friend told me she had a baby coming in the next month. Apparently she had switched me for a better candidate and gotten herself pregnant almost instantly.

    Realizing this broke me even more. I guess our time together had fixed her to a point where she was ready to start a family, just not with me. According to my friend she got three kids with the same guy and is very happy with her life.

    It took me years to recover from this and I don't think that I'll ever really get "over it".

  • I had a larger surgical procedure done when I was 7. They gave me the calming pre meds maybe half an hour before the operation to make sure that I wouldn't freak out with the IV. I remember clearly how strange it felt when the pre meds started to kick in, the whole world slowed down and everything felt "good".

    Then they wheeled me into the OR and took my robe off. The operating table was cold and I commented on it, the anesthesia doctor just laughed and said "don't worry, in a minute it won't be". Then she put the IV in and asked me to count down from twenty. "Nine" was the last word I managed to stutter before I went under.

    Then I woke up in the recovery room, about 9 hours later. It felt like I had slept a really long, dreamless sleep. The operation had gone as planned, but the recovery period in the hospital was still pretty painful.

  • My feelings exactly.

    I saw TOS when I was 9-10 years old and it was mindblowingly good compared to almost anything else you could see on TV at the time in my backwater country.

    Few years later I learned that this new series TNG will start airing and I was very excited. My disappointment was endless when I saw the pilot.

    I strongly disliked the general production aesthetics and Enterprise-D looked just stupid compared to the iconic original/refit Enterprise of TOS era. The characters felt so empty compared to the old crew and the first season scripts weren't so great, so I gave up on the series after seeing few episodes. This was in the early 90's.

    15 years later I saw a few episodes from the later seasons and to my surprise found that they were good. So I watched the entire series and enjoyed it. I still prefer TOS and love the new SNW, there's something about the older era setting that just hits me in the feels.

    Nostalgia is a powerful thing.

  • Very fast reflexes and I can see in the dark far better than most people.

    I had never realized that my eyes were different until my compulsory miltary service. I could reasily read maps when others couldn't see shit and I never stumbled during night training in the forest.

    Fast reflexes are generally pretty cool to havel, but it's not fun when a knife falls off the kitchen table and it is impossible to stop your own hand trying to catch it.

    My "learned talent" is fixing mechanical devices. When I was 6 or 7 I took apart and fixed the family VCR so I could finish watching the Smurfs. My mom found me studying the jammed mechanism, with all the parts lying on the living room carpet. She had a fit and wanted to collect the parts away, I started crying and told her that I'll never get it back together if she messes up their places. She watched as I released the stuck tape wheel and reassembled the device. And it worked.

    I've fixed countless devices with just visual analysis and pure intuition after that.

  • I have many projects going on.

    1. Complete window / frame restauration underway at the country house built in the fifties, I scraped all the original paint off by hand and now I'm waiting for drier days to finish the painting.
    2. Fixing the terrace at the country house, I laid the first new layer of concrete to fix the corroded parts just last Thursday. When it dries I'll see if an entire additional layer is required. Next summer I'll also rebuild the terrace fence and install growth lines for vines over the terrace.
    3. Acoustic Research AR-7x speaker restauration. I installed the new woofer surrounds few weeks ago, now I'm waiting for the ferrofluid for the tweeters to arrive by mail. Just yesterday I found suitable and cheap linen cloth for the new covers in a nearby cloth shop.
    4. Fixing the rain gutters at home, the weight of last winter's snow and ice pulled some if the screws off. This is a priority.
    5. Yard fence repainting, I rebuilt a large part of the fence in June but the weather has been too hot / humid to paint the old parts.
    6. New ceiling curtain rail installation at home. Would be easy per se, but it's a two man job and the ceiling is high...
    7. Motorcycle needs a new heat resistant paint job for the exhaust.
    8. Two sets of new custom speaker stand parts are cut and ready for welding, just haven't had the time to start it yet.

    ...and many more.

  • I love the taste of meat. There are very few things in world that taste as good as raw beew strips or or raw venison with a dash of salt and pepper.

    Still, about 10 years ago I started eating less red meat for health reasons (both sides of my family have long history with high blood pressure and cardiovascular diseases). I've always loved vegetables as well, so the change wasn't so hard.

    Maybe 5 years ago a lot of plant based protein products started to show up in the supermarkets here, so I decided to give them a try. And I found out they were pretty good. I actually now prefer plant based burger steaks over the real ones, and my spaghetti bolognese is far better when I make it with the fake minced meat.

    My dad used to work in the dairy industry in the early 80's and he told me thst he got to taste the early fake meat products while visiting some production plant in Denmark or Sweden. All the guests were served two minced meat steaks, of which the other one was plant or dairy based. None of them could tell the difference even back then.

  • This. I haven't had ads since Adblock came out in 2009. I switched to uBlock Origin few years ago, without it browsing would be intolerable.

    Last spring I helped a colleague with her work laptop and saw Chrome without adblocker. It was hideous.

    I installed uOrigin instantly and got the reputation of "Tech Wizard Who Can Make Ads Go Away". Turned out that almost no one had ever even heard of this possibility.