LavaPlanet @ LavaPlanet @lemm.ee

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I think they're getting pressure re the pirating aspect. I could imagine the bigger they get the bigger the magnifying glass will be held up to them. They're probably doing some fancy footwork to be able to remain in production / avoid lawsuits and similar pressure.

Check out some DBT / cbt techniques on YouTube or the like, whatever is easiest to access, find some that resonate with you and make them your own / tweak them so they fit your life / vibe.

I did a DBT course, and while I hated every minute of it, a lot of it is super great and hugely helpful for coping in hard moments and a great recipe for a way of living that's more calm and balanced. I feel like I hated the DBT course I did because the people presenting it had never even stumbled on a rock in their lives, let alone lived through a hard moment and needed any of this stuff for real, and their privilege read as saccharine condescension.

BUT! I'm never one to throw the baby out with the bath water, I believe you can turn anything to your advantage or upskill or just build knowledge, if you're industrious enough! You take those muthafking lemons and you make champagne, fk them. Plus they just mostly showed us clips on YouTube, so lol. The DBT course I did felt more like the break room from severance, having to admit how faulty you are and how this new enlightening thing they just told you seconds ago is going to benefit your life, as they announce each section. They didn't even give you time to process, let alone leave room for if that was something you already knew or already utilized, but, I powered through and just paid lip-service, got my upskill, moved on.

Easier path, just look up DBT on YouTube, find people explaining what you like, give it a go on a regular basis.

For every action there's an equal and opposite reaction?

Different dimension, tho. In this timeline he's good.

It's not that we expect them to be progressive, it's actually that we expect them to stick to the teachings of the Bible, THATS the progressive but, because all the right wing crazies are, supposedly religious and they purport religion to give reason to their crazy shit. So when the top religious guy goes, nope, at them, it breaks all their coercive manipulations to excuse their evil bullshit AND bonus icing, it labels it evil for all to see. We want more. I'm not even religious, or American, and I'm invested.

This is what I'm waiting to find out, what's his vibe. This is nice to hear.

Close, but nah, it's the meaning of life

Because it takes the edge off anxiety? I haven't even been on it all that long and I entirely forgot it did this. Holy crap, what was I even like before! I remember being in constant pain from the migraines. More pain than I even noticed I was in, weirdly enough. Is it helping your migraines? My head still feels like Swiss cheese, or something. But more brain fog and heavy than pain, now.

I have just discovered chia pudding. If you like Boba tea, (is that what it's called?) it's got that same bubble poppy, feel, if you don't, puree / grind the chia first. 1tbsp chia, Add whatever flavor you like, chocolate pudding mix, drinking chocolate, whatever. And a cup of whatever milk you like (or water). (I add some flax meal but it kinda tastes like dirt a little, especially if you put too much.) add whatever protein powder, pea protein is flavourless. Bam, tastes like chocolate pudding. Good fibre, good brain food (aka omega something something) I actually find I have more energy when I eat it. I make a jar of it and just have a couple of table / tea spoons a day. Good for a few days to a week. Oh, wait a few hours to overnight for it to solidify.

But you're operating from a state that, all people operate in good faith. These people will twist the narrative no matter what you do. They don't wait for you to validate them. They twist reality and logic and manipulate events. There is no reasoning with these types. If you sit back and do nothing, they'll twist that to their agenda just as much as if you do something. But sitting back guarantees a smooth path of no resistance, they get thier agenda easily. Resisting means they don't get there as easily. Nobody in history made changes by sitting back and sending love vibes, my friend, I truly wish that were the case. Women lost their lives, just for the right to vote. How many rights have been removed or are under threat right now? I mean absolutely no disrespect, and I can see your logic, I just feel like maybe you aren't personally familiar with these manipulative types. I get that you understand reactive abuse and you see they're trying to use that, but it really doesn't matter, they'll do the same thing anyway, so maybe the path is somewhere in the middle, not giving them a reason, but not sitting back quietly and there's no waiting for someone to oppose them, it's now, right now.

Oooh, your void is a little etherial, too!

But it's included in a plex pass. I know a lot of people were saying, a while back, they were happy to purchase a lifetime pass, so as to support the software. I didn't actually realise you could share without the plex pass. I thought that was always a thing.

You're hyper critical of yourself, but not in any way noticing or assessing your partners behavior. Your partner is at very best a HUGE jerk,and ableist, and at worst, purposefully abusing you and utilizing your disability to gaslight. You just described emotional, psychological abuse and gaslighting, from your partner. No, you won't ever be able to repair this relationship, they will always make you feel like you aren't good enough, that's their aim, that's on purpose. If you do ever meet their (purposefully impossible) ridiculously unachievable expectations, the goal posts will move. Stress to this level will cause your adhd to become more enhanced, so even trying to not be adhd, isn't going to work in this, very damaging environment, you find yourself in. Please let this relationship end, and make plans to safely leave yourself. Don't let them know you're leaving. You need to leave.

Is that cheap, by current standards? I'm in Australia, and so is the commenter I asked, but where I am it's unheard of for burgers to be much below $20.

Damn. I'm starting to really feel how expensive my city is.

I am so curious what part of Oz you're in, because absolutely nowhere is anything near those prices, where I am, but I am in an expensive city.

Maybe they both exist and it's about focusing on the ones you do want to remember and you do out of sentimentality and love.

Holy cow, where do you live that Burgers are still $10 anywhere.

Yet

But Does he have FAS, though? This Pic!