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  • I really hope you can open up to someone about your home life. Someone you can trust. I don't know what faith you have, but maybe the pastor, preacher etc. could be a person of trust? I know that in my home country they are obligated to keep your confessions private under any circumstances. Or maybe there's an institution for victims of domestic violence nearby? I know this may sound frightning at first or you might feel ashamed for one reason or another. But I hope you can take this step to get some outside help for your situation. You deserve to be safe. You deserve to be happy.

  • I am upgrading my GPU soon, and wanted to prepared, if I'd need to upgrade kernel for new drivers. Flirted with an intel GPU for a bit and read that 6.11(?) was recommended. But I decided to got AMD so, that may be unnecessary now.

  • I think there is a misunderstanding here. I didn't say that there is no value in discussing commonly suppressed or censored topics on the internet. I said that I would not want them associated with my regular account, which I believe is a good practice, especially if discussing said things could put you at risk.

  • I personally don't see the value. If I'd want to talk about stuff, I don't want my username associated with, maybe

    • the internet is not the right place to have this discussion or
    • I wouldn't want it associated to my account by any means, so would most likely create a burner account.

    I also wonder if it wouldn't make moderation harder?

  • I am just an armchair expert, but aren't "dark empaths" already real? For example individuals with narcissistic personality disorder don't necessarily lack empathy. Also manipulation "benefits" greatly from being empathic.

  • I don't know if it's a popular movie, but Ghibli's Ocean Waves is one of the worst movies I've watched recently. Nothing really happens and jumping between the protagonists memories and present time was confusing at first. But most importantly the main romance is incredibly unlikable. I don't know if it's just what 90ies pop-culture expected (young) women to be like, but looking at it now she resembles someone with serious psychological issues who compensates by being manipulative and cold.

  • About a year ago some tried to break into my flat at 2am. I was alone that night. They didn't get in because I put the chain in front of the door. The following nights I always locked the door, left the key in the lock and turned to the rightmost position, put the chain on, and moved a shelf in front of it. And whenever my roomies are gone for a couple of days, I'll lock the door. So yeah. You are not alone in this. Your feeling of safety has been challenged and that "tainted" feeling will linger for a while. I guess it's our survival instinct trying to warn us that we may not be safe. But it will get better with time.