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  • For me it's the time. It takes me from 7am to 9pm to get my hours done at work, do the school run and get the kid fedded and bedded. I'm doing all the hacks I can: cycling during lunch and in the weekend, as much as possible, but it's not adding up to enough. You just get a good routine going and then they throw in a school holiday to wreck everything up.

  • How to treat a man

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  • There is a sequence. People earn trust, then they get trust. That is the sequence.

    Individual boys will be trusted if they deserve it.

    Masculinity won't because it has broken trust. We've got a major crisis here, and it won't be solved with downvoting feminist opinions or demanding trust. We have inherited a deeply broken situation, and many of the loudest voices in masculinity are still disasterously counterproductive.

    The way forward is to forge a better masculinity that is an ally to the other genders. Maybe earn trust back. We can start by listening to women and hearing their concerns. Downvoting and negating their concerns pushes them in the wrong direction, doesn't it?

  • How to treat a man

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  • That depends on what you mean by "treated". Men are not as well trusted not to be violent, and taken less seriously when the victims of sexual crimes. Women are paid less well and get more online abuse. That's just a few examples for each side, obviously we could go on and on. Maybe we all want better treatment.