HexesofVexes @ HexesofVexes @lemmy.world

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It's always about Ads...

Oh, they start off as unobtrusive; maybe a little banner that shows when the app is opening, or a written mention with a link.

But, this doesn't generate much revenue. Next the banner persists, and suddenly a video plays. Just one, just once.

Eventually you open the app to pop up banners and autoplay videos, and wonder where the app is. Every line you cross with adverts makes the next line easier to cross.

1. Employment - you currently have 0 social encumbrance. It's a good time to job hop and move around, you meet a lot of people and learn a lot of social cues. Also better job gives more money for gaming.
2. Stop looking; the dating world post 30 is absolutely horrific, and it will destroy your mental health. The people in there are not all that bad, but the online dating scene brings out the worst in everyone. Time to explore the wilds and visit local cafes (worst comes to worst, you get good tea/coffee).
3. The type of people you meet varies with the type of game you play. If it has "more tits than a birdwatcher's photobook", you're not going to meet many women. If it's a wholesome online farming sim that ratio changes, but it's still rough as a guy. Games are great for meeting people, but not for meeting lovers.
4. At the end of the day, when the loneliness bites hard, don't be afraid to call a hotline for help.
5. Ok, ready for the big one? Stop looking for a partner and start looking for friends - the kind of people you can sit in a cafe with, or complain about work with. Guys, girls or those in between; doesn't matter. The thing that helped me most was making a few good friends who I still travel over a hundred miles to meet monthly, and who I game with weekly online.

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Yes and no; I've met some people who were great to date but hell to live with.

A good relationship starts with both people knowing what they want - and continual contact helps determine if the other person is being honest about what they want. Post 35/30, this process is often a lot faster, and dating skill matters less than ability not to annoy the person you're suddenly around 24/7.

If it matches from the start, or a compromise grows, you're in for a winner. Otherwise, back to the sea of the undead you go, no matter how good your dating skill!

Intention and reality are two different things - although I can't say I ever managed casual dating for 2 years! Usually most folks are in a relationship after 1.

I think it goes further than that - post 35 (post 30 really) there is a lot more pressure to shift from casual dating to a relationship at a faster pace.

Life experience talking here too, it isn't just "being upfront", it's also being willing to move at a faster pace.

The real secret to dating after 35 - don't.

Folks are not looking to "date": they're after long term commitment OR quick hook ups. The middle ground really vanishes when you get older!

I read this article title as "Top 11 ways to get your entire IT department to ragequit".

Heh, I did this once - mostly because 10+ PowerPoint animations really chug the university issue laptops, and I was presenting somewhere new (software is not your friend).

It was really 15 slides with about 20 animation steps on each - the students didn't seem to hate seeing a set of fully worked maths problems with colour coding linking parts of the question to the resultant equation.

He's looking up, and seeing the giant rain of sheep labelled "teaching load" and "marking AI generated essays" incoming.

Question sheets in Word - "Hello, and welcome to indent roulette"

Question sheets in LaTeX - "\item{} goes brr"

Whatever you do, don't post a link to that article to Archive.ph!

Seriously, it harms rich people by not letting them sell your data.

Sleep mode engaged...

...in...

...5....

...hours.

-thought pattern of every night owl who tries sleeping early.

Fun UK fact - we use a different ranking system for lecturers:

Lecturer Senior Lecturer Reader Professor

That means, at some point, someone has been a "Reader in X at Reading".

Resits... So many resits...

Students who I've never seen before asking how to pass my course.

So crowdstrike was really the digital wizard equivalent of trying to cast "protectum de rectum" and accidentally casting "shid pants" combined with "butt crackus impenetrous"?

Now it all makes sense!

Exactly - if you don't want to date a trans person don't. If someone conceals it, that's not an issue with them being trans, that's an issue with them being dishonest. It's ok to dislike dishonest people.

I only wanted to triforce.

Now I need to fix dad's laptop before he gets home!

The use of the word cis has its roots in an obscure Usenet group; it's genesis (apparently) rooted in a desire for more inclusive language for trans folks (the notion that "gender" Vs "transgender" was too othering).

It hit Tumblr like a train in the 2010s, and became a symbolic phrase in trans counterculture. "Cisgender" was less than popular with non-trans people, as it robbed them of the illusion of normality and turned the word "gender" into a social trap.

It later found derogatory use in the phrase "cissy" (a counter for the popular derogatory term "tranny").

It's a fun word with an interesting history, and it has helped contribute to the wider acceptance of trans folks.

To be entirely unbiased here, this covers user friendly distros that pretty much blow windows away for "default experience".

Windows has adware and scareware - more so it has config-cluster-fuckification (I believe this is the academic term for it?). This is where windows lost me - when it started bundling basic config options together to force you to relinquish your privacy. Now it's "edit the registry or gtfo"...

One of the videos you can hear "shooter down" before he gets up. Elderly, near death experience, and monumental arrogance would help explain his reaction pretty well!

Shooting him isn't the way - but I can see why someone was scared enough to think it was. Just remember kids, voting for Biden isn't just voting against trumpler - it's saying you would literally prefer someone who is probably senile overhim. It's a solid insult, and you should go out there on polling day to make sure he hears it.