we all know american car-centric infrastructure is fuckin evil.
look, you probably know this already, but cars are still the only practical option for most americans; they don't really have a choice. suburbia is subsidized, and so it simply makes financial sense to live in the suburbs, especially if they can't afford to live closer to where they work and shop.
it's great that you care about transportation infrastructure. engage in discussions to inform, of course, but do recognize that it's policy, not people, at fault.
I've written a whole spiel in response to your comment before I realized you were talking about the difficulty curve, aka new player experience, not the difficulty of the game as a whole.
And yeah, that tracks; the new player experience in both those games you've mentioned (along with many other Souls-like games) is kinda bad. Sometimes, some hand-holding at the start is nice.
i think people have the chairs and cushions covered.
instead, i recommend you also look into footrests. someone already mentioned lowering the chair to keep your legs angled properly, but that may make it uncomfortable to work if your desk is at a fixed height.
aight fellas, if you want to get into sounding, do not and i repeat do not just insert random objects down your pee hole.
buy a proper sounding kit, either smooth metal or silicone rods will do, and it is often recommended to also use sterile lubricant with them. remember to sterilize those rods too.
aight fellas, if you gotta clean out your bum, just buy a douche bulb.
having strong jets of water may fill up your rectum real quick, but 1. it's hard to control how much water is being used, 2. the pressure may damage your insides, and 3. you're also introducing air into you which will just cause a bloated feeling and farts.
your rectum doesn't have much volume, so being able to control how much water you use ensures less water goes up your intestines and therefore less discomfort and oopsie dookies on daddy's dick.
This is an awesome reason to go vegetarian holy shit.
All the reasons I've heard have mostly been issues of morality and some ecology.