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  • It still comes down to acceptance vs rejection, though, doesn't it?

    I know it's not that simple and I probably come off as an idealist, but I can't accept it.

    I don't know what the answers are yet, but rejecting their narrative is where it has to start.

  • I'm a transwoman and I agree with you on this. When I was dating, I was upfront and when a guy said it was a deal breaker, it saved both of us a lot of time.

    Most guys I talked to said it was a dealbreaker, and yeah it sucks. It makes you feel "othered." But I can't expect anyone to go outside their sexual comfort zone for a rando on Tinder.

    Most of the guys were very polite about it all, too. And that's all you should need to do.

    If someone's shaming you about it, that's a good sign they have something going on in their own life. Essentially it's their problem, not yours.

    Hope this helps~

  • This is the internet in 2024. You can only be "Right" or "Wrong" and that depends on which color flag the topic falls under, unfortunately.

    I'm slowly giving up on even trying to highlight any shades of grey. The goal on both sides seems to be "Shoot first, as questions later."

    Just hoping cooler heads prevail.

  • I agree with what you're saying, but remember that a lot of new-to-politics people are starting to pay attention, and they might now understand how the Iowa stuff works.

    Shit, I barely do and I've been following politics since early 2020.