Flummoxed @ Flummoxed @lemmy.today

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I really enjoyed reading your thoughts. I have been trying to do much of the same as far as mindfulness and not forcing things. Listening to myself and the universe. Unfortunately, this will probably get deleted because this is not the appropriate community. I'm not really sure what community would be best, but I hope I find that community somewhere on Lemmy! @Blaze@lemmy.dbzer0.com, do you have any ideas what would be an appropriate community?

Thank you for the reasoned reply to this question. I had planned to write something very similar, but I was having problems being quite so measured. I hope OP reads your reply.

Don't be too mad at dad: it is definitely a teachable moment to show a kid that even if you try your best, sometimes people are jerks and you don't get the outcome you wanted. Showing a child how to deal with that with grace but firmness would be excellent. Unfortunately, I expect that this was an older teacher and admin is afraid of her. You might not get anywhere with unleashing hell, though I will now choose to believe that that's exactly what dad did and the horrible person got fired. There will be justice in my imagination!

Yes, it is definitely stupid adults' fault. Every time. If a kid is having issues, it's because of an adult behaving poorly. Usually the parents, but teachers and others can be just as bad.

Oh shit! Don't tell anyone I said anything!

Kids are so smart! That is why I love working with them. They can be so resourceful and think outside the box so easily... while I am supposed to be the teacher, they often teach me more.

This is correct. This person was not a teacher and makes everything worse for all of us who actually want to encourage and educate young people. I rarely feel anger, but this kind of thing absolutely enrages me. Why would you do this to a child??

If you can't solve that problem, can you solve another slightly easier problem? Sometimes it is the level of difficulty that is too high for the moment, and you have to find something a little less challenging and repeatedly conquer that before you are capable of the more challenging problem. You may also be experiencing some anxiety because you are telling yourself you can't remember it or do it. To work on this you will have to change your attitude toward your ability and working on the easier problems may also help you gain more confidence.

These are just suggestions from a veteran teacher who works with many students with the same issues; these are the things I've seen help the most. I hope they help you!

No, pantyhose should not hurt. If they hurt, they are too small. The problem with pantyhose that don't go up so high is that they end up rolling down and bunching weirdly if they can't anchor themselves high up. They are not as sturdy as leggings, which is why they roll down.

I hope that helps!

Good one! Thanks for sharing.