No, because I ignore whatever AI slop comes up when I search for something
I have never found it to be anything other than useless. I will actively search for a qualified answer to my questions, rather than being lazy and relying on the first thing that pops up
I'm annoyed only because I had quite a number of genuine fans of my content, and reddit was kinda special to me because I'm now engaged to my biggest fan
You tell her that you want to see her, but without the kids
It sounds like you don't want to see her in the first place, and if you don't have a close enough relationship to be able to say that you don't want the kids there, then I'd be asking why you would have coffee with them at all
Probably
But I don't see it as work
"Work" is unfucking a situation that I created by being lazy in the first place rather than doing something properly
I'm probably showing my age though...