First Majestic Comet @ FirstMajesticComet @lemmy.blahaj.zone

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They're both cool but I prefer dressing as the first one. I just think it looks cooler.

I think both is Bigender.

Why are the warm ones framed as "genders" in this? I can see why people might think those who like Cool white would be mentally ill but not what makes the warm white ones 'gender'.

I would do anything at this point to wake up as a girl

You are already a beautiful girl.

or else you will get sick and weak and die.

Hasn't happened to me yet, I haven't taken any hormones since I was around 14/15 (for less than about two weeks too) and I'm mostly fine. You may be right though I've had people tell me that it's not good and I should do something about it but knowing me I probably won't and it'll be an issue for future Riley to deal with.

Context: have a genetic condition that causes very low androgen levels, not completely depleted but low enough that it's not much different. I was prescribed T when I was younger but I did not continue taking it because it make me feel sick and lots of other factors I'm not getting into right now.

This doesn't really apply to me since I don't have too much T, some might argue I don't have enough (maybe they might be right but I don't care).

It depends on defederation and users banned from this instance (lemmy.blahaj.zone), instance blocks don't have any affect on user visibility, just communities and posts to those communities.

I agree, let's not focus on the awful things happening in the world now and instead focus on the awesome wholesome things, like cute and comfy skirts and thigh highs, oh and the cool masks, those are nice too.

I don't use Lemmy apps, only Desktop-ui for me.

Literal Lava Cakes

I like the second one, but I'd want just the matching red stripey ones. I don't like mismatched ones.

You get fire breath too (maybe). Also probably courage.

Oh I didn't think of that, yeah I think in that case I'd rather be stuck as a dragon, even if I can't turn back. Way less risky/dangerous than not being able to control the others. Would require adjustments and adaptations but hey, still better than having to chain yourself down so you don't float away.

I choose the dragon one because I can get more out of that than the others here.

Less accountability online than in real life. In real life they're the biggest pussies out there and probably wouldn't even mildly protest, let alone attack or threaten to attack someone. They are more confident online because the stakes are lower.

Famous quote I remember:

"All clothing is gender neutral if you stop being a little bitch about it"

I don't know who said it but I remember the quote well, and it's true. Ultimately clothing is just cloth, it doesn't have any intrinsic gender to it. We are the ones who assign gender to clothing, and we can ignore or remove that assignment if we choose.

I don't speak for everyone who wears them but for me it's usually a pair of shorts, the really short ones.

Yeah, normally I'd say it's a bit extreme but honestly some of the instances basically don't care or only moderate for PR, and those instances absolutely should be defederated because they will be inevitably problematic for us and our communities.

Lemmy.world is a great example of this, they allow many transphobic and homophobic users to keep posting there, and if called out give said users a temp ban and remove comments, lots of times they won't even remove the comments (like one user claiming that LGBTQ books are indecent and should be banned, said comments are still up). They're basically like the Reddit or Facebook of the Fediverse, anything goes until it hurts PR, they claim all kinds of rules but only enforce those when they get heat.

sh.itjust.works is another one but supposedly they are trying to be better and they did actually listen to my initial community removal request I sent them instead of reverting it out of pettiness like lemmy.world's administration did, so in some regards I feel like defederation is too extreme, but in others like with lw not so much.

Yeah it's not like those, she's dead serious. Though even when it is, gender identity invalidation and sexism even as a joke is uh, pretty gross, and not really something that should be encouraged.

I heard of this case where a person suffered a head injury and was unable to speak English because of it, they were only able to speak a foreign language (I don't remember what it was specifically). So yeah you can forget it midway through the game, or anywhere else. Nintendo just likes to lock people into choices, I think it might be a Japanese thing (it's why you can't aren't allowed to change your name in any of their games).