What's a skill that's taken for granted where you live, but is often missing in people moving there from abroad?
FinalBoy1975 @ FinalBoy1975 @lemmy.world Posts 3Comments 152Joined 2 yr. ago
FinalBoy1975 @ FinalBoy1975 @lemmy.world
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It's not really transactional. It's just a situation where you got left out of the birthday and happened to go out to the same place where the birthday is being celebrated. However, it's interesting to note that there is no such thing as a surprise birthday party. The birthday boy or girl is the one that throws the party because of the reciprocity aspect. You wouldn't be caught dead attending a birthday without a present for the person whose birthday it is. You also wouldn't be caught dead letting people bring you birthday presents AND buying you dinner. It's more like "tit for tat" than "transactional."