Yea. That sounds like it's getting unhealthy. You might wanna take a break on that. I'm not a therapist but i think the criteria for an addiction is something like:
is it impacting your daily life if you can't have it?
Well are you using sex to feel better about things that are upsetting? Like people who are addicted to nicotine will immediately think of that the second they get bad news or feel anxious. It's the first thing that comes to mind to use to immediately feel better. Do you feel that way but with sex? If not then you're probably okay.
As a stoned person in their 30s, I have no idea what to say here. I guess I'll try:
OP, I think you're just doing what 21 year old kids do. You're experiencing life and grieving a break-up. If you like banging this douche-bro and you're safe, then I say keep doing it as long as you're getting what you want. As soon as you're not, break it off. And if you ever feel unsafe then end it immediately.
You'll get over you're ex and move on and have other relationships. Nothing you're saying here sounds out of the ordinary or surprising. You'll be aight. Just make sure you're not using sex as a coping mechanism and maybe take some time to chill and just be single. See some friends. Play some games. Eat some fancy food. Just chill and re-evaluate things when you feel better.
Edit: Just checked OP's post history. OP, you are absolutely not chillin right now. You gotta chill.
Right. But 0.08 is still very inebriated is my point. Regardless of if you feel it or not. I'm sure some people who drink a lot probably feel that 0.08 means they're totally fine, however this is objectively false.
Nope. But I think it makes the communities feel fake and un-authentic. As I mentioned, certain pictures/videos are clearly designed to drive traffic to their onlyfans. It becomes about money rather than passion. Totally not sexy at all. Also many of these people aren't even the ones posting. They have agents do it for them.
I just want to complain about how every single NSFW community on Lemmy is essentially a giant advertisement for Onlyfans. Every single OP who posts pictures/videos has a giant link to their Onlyfans in their profile. It's such garbage. I've seen people censor their photos here as an obvious bait plot to drive traffic to their uncensored onlyfans. Unfortunately the mods of these communities don't seem to give a fuck.
Idk why your post is getting downvoted. I'm starting to think people on Lemmy hate sex (except on nsfw communities.) I think our favorite is good old fashioned missionary. It's always a hit.
It's a major religion and I rather not waste my life worshipping made up story Gods. Idgaf which religion it is. They're all complete made up bullshit. There is no God, and if there is some sort of God-like entity, it's certainly not the one some humans made up to feel better about the world.