My first day at my duty station I was 10 min early to work and a staff sergeant told me if I wasn't 15 min early I'm already 5 min late...good words to live by
I know you're probably joking, but it's good to keep in mind what I've heard a lot while dealing with homeless folk called trauma responses. Take a second and try and think why and what could bring someone to respond a certain way. Yeah they may just be a dbag but they may also have dealt with a lot of things you'd never wish upon your worst enemy.
Definitely not at my place on Sat 11pm...