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  • honestly I wasn't going to watch these and then I started to and now I have to watch all of them. Jauwn is genuinely entertaining and that's always a nice find for me.

    thank you for sharing!

  • I love the game, but I like extremely slow progress, so I use mods and modify the wealth multiplier(?) as well in the vanilla to make it more challenging. I also really love mods that add content, and there are quite a few out there! it's annoying to always update mods manually (as compared to the steam workshop) but I did really enjoy when I was playing with my partner and we had 30+ mods!

    a family member who I'm close to who also plays Stardew Valley likes to refer to me playing "Dark Souls Stardew Valley" which I thought was funny, especially because I'm terrible at Dark Souls.

    overall I really like the game on it's own. it helps that ConcernedApe has kept adding to it even though he absolutely doesn't have to (it's a big game as it is!) and I appreciate him for that. I do get a tiny bit stressed about the timer on days (notably when I'm playing with someone else and they're really stretching the time thin) but it's a very, very small thing. I had never played Harvest Moon or any other farming sim games before SDV, so I have no point to compare, but I just really appreciate the game being chill and a change of pace from games I'd usually play, that are almost entirely based on combat.

  • welp, time to explain why I don't have a desktop after my post two weeks ago that I had to put new parts in.

    the short version is that the motherboard's AMD bracket was covered mostly by a plastic piece that said "REMOVE" so I did that, but it wasn't clear that I was supposed to put it back on. ultimately when I kept trying to put things together and they didn't work, some of the motherboard's CPU pins got crushed, and now I have to hope I can get another. I'm trying to return it to amazon and use the money for a second one, but we'll see how that goes. the CPU itself might be damaged too, it's not clear, and I have no way of testing it without the motherboard. I feel really dumb for not knowing that the bracket was supposed to go there. and I can't just buy a new one right now because being on disability sucks.

    originally I thought it had been the RAM since I was told the motherboard was finnicky with it, but I had to take two sets of it back after I found out it was the motherboard. thankfully my cousin looked at it and is willing to put things together for me again. it's just waiting on amazon is killing me. I spend a lot of time at my desktop (especially because it's going to be over 90 degrees here for a while) and my laptop is a low end gaming one from 6 years ago. it can't run much, including my favorite game, although I can play it for very short periods of time. I broke out my nintendo switch to play, but that's not helping the depression too much.

    some issues with my partner popped up, as well as some with my mother, and I just don't feel great. been trying to do what I can for that (like making some posts here) but it's a battle and I wish I didn't have to have it. I hope the week improves but I'm just tired already.

  • I didn't particularly like the layout styling in Pop!_OS and being so new to linux, I didn't know how much I could change aesthetics wise. KDE looks more appealing to me, I don't know if it's because it looks like windows, but that might be a factor? it's the default on the distro I wanna give a try (Bazzite) which also has nudged me in that direction.

    I wasn't expecting so many people to have used Debian for things other than servers. I have it on a server myself, but I decided I needed something more set up for gaming already on my desktop. what led you to Debian specifically? the stability?

  • thank you for the tip!! I didn't even notice it had a steam workshop, hahaha. I got the mod, so hopefully things go a little smoother next time. I have to play on controller currently which is a bit weird but I'm hoping I get used to it.

  • this is actually what I'm going to be giving a go! I have very little experience (I have servers that run Debian and DietPi, but I get help with those) with linux but I'm really excited to give the KDE version a try. and I've been trying to learn, too, because also my partner is going to be moving to a dual boot setup as well. been watching a lot of videos and reading a lot too, especially while my desktop is out of commission.

    do you find that anything is missing in Bazzite for you?

  • I live with my mom and she has to have the news on borderline 24/7 while she's awake. I hate it because I have very good hearing so I constantly listen to music instead.

    when I lived alone, I simply didn't have any sort of streaming service or cable, or what have you. my tv was exclusively for music and gaming on. that was even years ago.

    frankly, I hate having to be around the news for the most part. I will sometimes read stuff on beehaw, but otherwise, no, not for me.

  • this is such a mood. I was playing Mario Odyssey earlier on a big screen tv, and... it still didn't feel great, hahahaha. even though my monitors are smaller, I just prefer it.

  • I used to do emulation but stopped for a while. now it seems more difficult, but a family member just gave me quite a few old games (and I'm planning to ask for some others, like Banjo Kazooie and Pokemon SoulSilver hahaha) so I'm looking forward to getting back into that! I also miss the pokemon fangames that weren't actually for emulators, have some good memories of those.

    I love modding things and appreciate the modding community for games a lot. most recently modded game I played was Stardew Valley, but it made me miss the steam workshop and auto updating mods :c

    I still haven't touched Breath of the Wild but I own it for the switch.

  • in all honesty, I don't really want to have to spend all my time blocking and curating when I just want to contribute when I can. I usually don't visit a ton of other lemmy instances, and the ones I do I don't really comment in, either. maybe I'm overly anxious and skittish, but at the same time, I'm 1) very much already tired and don't want to spend a ton of time curating a block list and 2) just trying to find a community to fit in where I'm comfortable.

    I know I'm not the most active by far, but I don't want this community to open up just so we can have more content. more content to me doesn't always equal good content, I guess.

  • trying out Mario Odyssey, since my main computer is down for the count. I don't know why console gaming has become difficult for me after I started gaming on pc.

    then, I'm dipping my toes in with Caves of Qud, but I don't know if my brain is in the place right now to learn how to play. tutorial videos are likely in my future.

  • thank you so much!! did you build a pc for just everyday use or are you a gamer as well? and thank you for the tips! I have everything now and I'm just waiting for my partner to not be busy so that hopefully today I can video call them and we'll do it together. they've been working on computers since they were 14, so, they'll be a lot of help! I'm replacing the motherboard, ram, cpu, and cpu cooler (and a fan hub but that's less important) so I have to strip everything out and start over, hahaha.

    always nice seeing you around!

  • In our case, my partner's desktop had broken down completely (they later ended up with parts from my ex's computer that they could use to fix the issues) a while ago, and they had to use a very old laptop as well. I'm a really avid gamer and I'm learning to code, plus I stream for my partner everything from videos, to movies, to video games. Plus we play together. So I feel you!

    Currently the remaining parts will be here Friday and then I have to figure out how to put them in. I didn't build my current desktop and have only done small things in it so far. There's also wiping things clean for the dual boot, and to help ensure the issues hopefully clear up on the software end. I did at least enjoy learning about different Linux distros.

    Thank you for this message! It made me feel a bit better.

  • Having a rough one, unfortunately.

    Power went out today, but it's not just us so I think that's at least promising that we don't have to have an electrician come out and fix something.

    Currently struggling with a lot of anxiety over my computer. I spend a lot of time on it and I love playing video games, plus my queer platonic partner is long distance. But it's showing a lot of issues and some of the parts are really old, so I want to replace them. Gotta find the money for that somehow. I'm hoping to start fresh on it and wipe everything plus dual boot windows with pop!_os. I had already installed both before but starting anew sounds like a good idea.

    I barely know how to use linux but I have a server so that's helped me understand more, at least. I'd swap completely but one of the games I love demands windows because of anti-cheat.

    Birthday was as good as it could be. People close to me put in a lot of effort to make it nice, but trauma always comes in swinging. But it was nicer than other years have been, I'll count it as a win.

  • Heyo! So recently we got some new plants, and thank you for the tip a while ago to re-pot my aloe, it's doing much better now, I think. The middle is still brownish red, but the rest is very strong and green, and there are still parts of it growing out of the center.

    I'd post pictures but I'm on mobile, maybe when my power comes back on!

    My mom bought a tropical hibiscus which I'm not sure will survive but we'll see. It seems to be doing well enough. I managed to get an english lavender and I've been told by a friend who knows more about plants that it looks very healthy. And roses have been really hard to grow for us but one of the two rose bushes my mom bought seems to be doing well too!

    Questions, though. I've read that lavender wants pine needles over leaf mulch, are they significantly better? I'm also wondering how much I should be watering it, we've had a lot of storms lately but I want to stay on top of it.

    Thanks for any more tips and thanks for the thread!

  • hey! sorry replying to this took so long, I have had some mental health struggles.

    I can definitely relate to writing about those topics. I feel like it's a really good way to cope, because it's what I used my entire childhood as well, but also to explore those issues in a controlled environment. although I wouldn't call it someone extending "pity" towards you, you're seeking sympathy, and I know it's easy to fall into that trap but wording is important!

    I used to always write younger characters (though they were always teenagers) being taken care of by an older character, always an adoptive sibling situation, because I have no siblings but always wanted one. parents were never part of it. I think you and I want the same things in our writing -- the healing aspect is really important instead of breaking the character over and over, which is something I see a lot of writers enjoy in the spaces I used to be in. it's something I think is important for people to see (even though I don't write publicly anymore), especially people who might be going through their own struggling.

    I envy your ability to write sci-fi, I've never been able to write it in a way I was happy with. my favorite has always been "soft sci-fi" or "sci-fi that makes sense but we're not going to do any math or science okay?" hahaha. just because unless it's pretty simple (which yours sounds like it is) my poor single brain cell fries itself trying to remember and parse everything.

    when you say reincarnation pods that determine what your new body is based on what psyche wants, does that mean even if people reincarnate, they don't leave the afterlife? and also, does that mean you don't really have any control over it? so someone who, say, is not in touch with or not open to admitting they're something (like take gender identity for example) might end up having to stare that in the face? if so, I think that's really cool! it makes for a really interesting plot to explore, even if you as the author don't end up taking that route for any of the characters.

    I love that choice for Chris's new name! Solemn is also just really pretty. the choice to use a name change to represent starting anew is also very nice.

    when you say "beefed up seraph", what does that entail? extra powers?

    and can you tell me more about Solemn's new family? I love secondary/supporting characters. I have a curse with them ending up my favorites.

    I'm not currently in a place where I would be very good at reading the WIP, but I do really appreciate you extending the offer. I understand if you can't reveal too much because of you working on it, too! and of course, I wish you lots of luck and inspiration in that process.

  • so mine is kind of situational, but while I have a really hard time taking care of myself, I'm always able to get up and do things for my dogs. they need to be let out, shown affection (which is also good for depression!), fed, etc. it helps that they like to lay in bed with me and are very forgiving when it comes to timing on, say, when they're fed.

    honestly I just think having something to care for in these situations can be very helpful, but it also depends on the person.

  • Stardew Valley! but...extremely modded SDV. I'm playing multiplayer with my partner and we have almost 60 mods going. quite a few of them are aesthetic but we have some area expansions and stuff like that as well. I really like tweaking the game so that it's more difficult, I've played it so much (over 300 hours!) that it's more appealing to me that way.

    I love modding games in general. it's my curse.

  • I don't talk here but I am a user and this community has helped me a whole hell of a lot. I'll see if I can get a donation heading your way when I next get paid! thanks for your hard work.

  • why no hope for Revolt? I had looked into it self hosting wise, but when I realized they had made it really difficult, I lost interest and haven't been following it since.