Unfortunately, propagating ignorance is useful as a tool to keep change from ever occurring.
I'm a white dude that lived in the South for 42 of my 51 years. I was fortunate that my parents were flower children that didn't fit in with the hate scene of the time, and they taught me to respect everyone.
Their biggest hurdle was the limit of their knowledge. Like me, they weren't taught the history of atrocities that we're perpetrated against our citizens. The advantage that I had as a parent, over what my parents had, was the good fortune to live in an age of enlightenment through information.
I did my best to make sure that I passed on that part of my parents legacy to my, now adult, children while also making sure they understood what the actual history looked like in our country. I'm hopeful they'll levy their advantages to continue to help break the cycle.
We were raised in a pretty strict environment and, unfortunately, didn't get much of an opportunity to experience many things during our youth out of fear and shame. Once we moved away from that horrid place and our children became adults, we were able to relax and focus on us and the things we were curious about. That liberation has given us a whole new opportunity to find exhilaration on our terms.
My wife and I have been married for nearly 30 years and we're just now learning to be our best slutty selves.
We've been going places to meet others and learning about their lives while sharing ours. The best opportunities usually are at the places where clothing is optional or outright banned. It's amazing how people open up and talk about all the things when the last physical vestige of hiding is removed.
Some would point and laugh, but we're not the ones that are lonely. Once you come to the point of reality that all of this ends, it's easier to let go of the bullshit and just live.