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  • Ah, the sarcasm.

    It kind of makes sense that everyone grew to be highly sarcastic when you think about how no matter what you say someone's going to jump down your throat about it. Much easier to avoid all that by dropping a "/s" at the end of your comment or saying something so outlandish that no one could believe you were being serious (as an added bonus, if someone does take the bait then YOU get to jump down THEIR throat!)

    It's a kind of defense mechanism in toxic communities.

  • Inb4 "if you only want to work for 4 of 5 days then you must only want 80% pay and oh by the way we still expect you to come in all 5 days anyways because corporate culture or something."

  • Clickbait title.

    In his veto message, Frey wrote he “secured a commitment from Uber” that drivers picking up passengers in Minneapolis or driving within the city will make the city’s minimum wage of $15 an hour. The company also committed to paying Uber drivers at least $5 for any trip in the metro area.

  • Thinking Fast and Slow has a lot of really good info but man does it go on.

    You might also like Behave by neuroscientist Robert Sapolsky if you haven't already read it. It's another book which explains a lot of why we are the way we are. Very interesting read; lengthy but still compelling.

  • When I read Infinite Jest the first time I was in college I was dealing with a lot of "life's crossroads" type issues, some of which I didn't even know about until I looked back on them. The book helped me understand that I needed to stop relying on my "innate" talents and privileges and actually start putting in work for the things I wanted if I was ever going to have a hope of a good life. It also put into perspective a lot of substance use/abuse stuff in a really subtle way that ended up being very beneficial to me.

    Now, on my second reading, there is none of the profound and personal wisdom present in the text. It is an enjoyable read, but for completely different reasons. I guess that first read was kind of just a "right place, right time" scenario for me.

    2 years ago I read Divergent Mind by Jennara Nerenberg and it completely changed my perspective on the mental care industry and revealed, with studies and statistics, how women are systematically underserved when it comes to medical issues (both physical and mental). After reading that book it was like a big empathy door was kicked open in my brain that had been shut my whole life, and I suddenly started understanding some of the deep context behind the experiences of women in my life that I was previously never aware of.

  • This is anecdotal of course, but probably a good 60% or more of my friends and younger family members have met their long-term partners "on Tinder." I started dating my wife just weeks before the app launched in our area, but as far as I've seen it's a valid way to find yourself a spouse if that's what you're into

  • I think most people will give you credit for trying. Parents get it, non-parents who are non-assholes will also have some level of tolerance as long as it looks like you're doing your best to keep the child calm and quiet.

    Shit happens. Kids are unpredictable.

    You can also try a baby dose of benadryl to knock them out just before takeoff.

  • Interesting. I basically do this to myself by counting two breaths and repeating that count while focusing on the darkness behind my eyelids. If I catch my mind wandering I go back to the simple count and staring at my eyelids again. Works pretty well most of the time as I'm not picturing anything nor am I allowing my inner monologue to run away on me.

  • Agh, people I've talked to seem so reticent to understand that even outside the commute time I'm giving up my time to my employer. I don't want to wake up at 5 to rush out the door to sit in traffic until 7:30 and do the same on the way home then still have to spend my own "free" time meal prepping and doing house chores that I can hopefully cram in before I have to go to bed and do it all again tomorrow.

    All of that is no longer "my" time because I would definitely be spending it differently if it weren't for the expectations imposed on me by my employer. Try to tell people that and they look at me like I've sprouted a third eye

  • Free or affordable, clean, safe public transit that takes me no more than 20 minutes from the time I set foot out my front door to setting foot in the office, and a team/company that doesn't care if I decide to work the day remotely for any reason whatsoever. I also like the other guy's comment about the workplace being a nice, inviting place to be since my cube is barren and probably 20+ years old.

    Also the rest of y'all need to stay home when you get sick instead of bringing that shit into the office.