For me it's the forgetfulness around this that really grips my shit.
I lose things because I forget where I've put them, or I forget what I was doing when I last had them. My brain just goes off on its own little track, regardless of what I need it to do, then BAM, I can't find something that my wife is asking me for.
Completely randomly yesterday, I interrupted something she was saying to me to blurt out where I put the cats' Dreamies, because I suddenly remembered that I'd put them in an out of the way place so they wouldn't get to them and tear the packet up. If I'd waited until she'd finished talking, I'd have forgotten, then we'd never have found them again.
To be fair to them, they released Smash just in time for skate punk to suddenly explode into the mainstream. They went from punk scene kids playing shitty dive bars and squats to being up there with Green Day, Nofx, and Rancid at the top of the punk tree, and kinda wanted to stay there. So Smash is a legitimately brilliant record, Ixnay On The Hombre is great, then they hit their formula with Americana and cruised along that rut.
Justice sensitivity made driving very hard for me, before I figured out what was happening, and trained myself to be more chill behind the wheel.
I mean, you see some Grade A, top choice weaponry piloting their fucking Audis about on the roads, driving far too fast, sticking right on people's arses, flashing their lights, beeping their horns, and generally being copper-bottomed shitcunts. And that drives me fucking mad.
But I listened to a podcast a while ago, during which the host noted that one of the things we tend to do is get angry with others for breaking rules that we make for ourselves. My values when driving are not the same as someone else's. Someone else believes it's perfectly reasonable to flash their lights at someone who's only doing 90mph in the outside lane because they want to continue doing 110mph. Me getting angry at that person form my car isn't going to help them understand that they've broken one of my personal rules, so why bother?
This shift in mindset has really helped me to chill the fuck out when driving, which in turn has permeated into other areas of my life. People don't share 100% of my values, and that's mostly ok.
But I won't say that I don't get really pissy when I see injustice being perpetrated by the rich and powerful. How former Presidents and Prime Ministers keep getting away with all manner of fuckery because society is built for them. As a result, I've mostly taken to ignoring the news, because otherwise I'd just be angry all the fucking time.
Not really, but it's not overly surprising really.
Most of my favourite subs are pretty nerdy, niche ones, or kinda based on a stupid joke. So the likes of /headphones /iPod /BicyclingCircleJerk may or may not make it over here.
I kinda don’t think “neurotypicals” per se actually exist
The more I learn about my own ADHD, and my wife's ASD, the more convinced I am of this. There's no such thing as "neurotypical", just people that are better able to exist under society's rules than others. Every one of us is the result of the experiences that have led us to where we are this moment in time, of all the neurones that have fired up and formed pathways to give us the skills and abilities and disabilities that make us who we are.
Yes, sorry, my original comment wasn't very clear. I meant in general. Reddit is a fun(ish) place to spend some time that is likely to be shafted because some people want to get their money's worth to add to their already towering piles of wealth.
Why must everything have to be financially valuable to these fucking people? Why can't a service just exist to make people happy? Capitalism eventually ruins everything, and it's exhausting.
Once you've read that, get a copy of Nightwatch. Much the same cast of characters, but it's widely considered to be Terry's magnum opus. That book is a damn work of art.
I'd not heard of it until last week, when folks on r/books were singing its praises in a thread, so figured I'd give it a shot. Yeah, it's enjoyable. Definitely aimed squarely at the middle of the YA crowd, but it's an easy read at a time when my brain isn't letting me really get into any books.
DJDarren @ DJDarren @beehaw.org Posts 21Comments 251Joined 2 yr. ago
For me it's the forgetfulness around this that really grips my shit.
I lose things because I forget where I've put them, or I forget what I was doing when I last had them. My brain just goes off on its own little track, regardless of what I need it to do, then BAM, I can't find something that my wife is asking me for.
Completely randomly yesterday, I interrupted something she was saying to me to blurt out where I put the cats' Dreamies, because I suddenly remembered that I'd put them in an out of the way place so they wouldn't get to them and tear the packet up. If I'd waited until she'd finished talking, I'd have forgotten, then we'd never have found them again.