I had recurring dreams like that too, but I came to the conclusion that it was just my mind playing tricks and making me think that I had that dream before. It's like a dream deja vu.
English is my second language too, but my mother tongue has neutral genders the same. I don't know how it works in your primary language, but if it is not the same, I guess you have to learn more about how it works before trying to tell the native speakers to abandon context.
These are the X team.