It's pretty clear the issue here is you. Specifically, your reaction. The solution to than can only come from you. The world will not bend to you and the world is not responsible for making you feel certain things, that's all you.
13? How many of their friends have phones because I would assume their using phones, just not one you gave them and I know from experience other parents do not do the most basic of filtering in their kids devices.
It's a technology sub and I've been around long enough to know this is where the morons of the internet hang out but not everyone is as aware of the pattern.
That still wouldn't account for it. The code to collect this is tiny and the data isn't stored locally. The whole point is for them to suck it up into their massive dataset.
It's not that we deserve to be hurt, it's that he is helpng us, saving us and the pain that comes with that isn't his fault. It's the fault of the oppressors he has saved us from.
Whereas they have to treat all men as though they are their worst iterations just to be safe, and that can be frustrating and confusing and they also know that it's hurtful to treat men who may not be terrible that way.
It's more complicated than that. They have to treat men with unearned respect while planning for the worse. Treating man as a threat can make him a threat if he feels his masculinity is threaten he may act erratically.
To put it the other way, they don't have to worry about managing the bear's feelings.
So I wasn't sure if you were an asshole, but based on this comment, I'm am not certain you are.
I say this because it's fun for me and I've been taught to speak at my audience's level.