Lady Butterfly @ CheeseToastie @lazysoci.al

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I really like you.

I agree, he has capacity so theres no excuse. You probably just typed this out in a hurry and didnt realise you said it, but normal isn't the right word. Neurotypical is better.

Yep, he bought her. She's his purchased property and she's not doing what he paid for. I'm so fucking angry about this

What an incredible coincidence that there was a suspiciously convenient flood at that time in that room 🙄

Oh god you're right. It's scrubbing her off the planet altogether... she may even feel physically threatened by that

I think that might win the thread. I literally have that written in the rules for my lemmy community Womens Stuff perhaps I should ban myself.

Welcome! It's a really nice place to hang out

Yep plus blackout blinds throughout the day, they massively help.

I absolutely agree. It weakens the position.

Yep and there is more than enough hatred for him. I'm surprised it's not happened more

Yep and if he's controlling he'll HATE that she's not doing as he wants and living as the gender she was assigned at birth

Theres research showing LGBT kids raised by abusers are often targeted for abuse. They're often gender non conforming, and the abuser goes for them. It's just awful

This is horrendous. Imagine saying "my child is dating someone black, they're dead to me" or "I didn't realise her mum was mixed race when I had sex with her so I'm severing contact with my child". This is outrageous horrible and abusive. I'm genuinely upset about this

100% and the good thing is they seem to be really nice people joining

I love it! Reddit has slowly been going to shit for years, so many posters are nasty and there's so much hysteria. There's ads and political manipulation everywhere. I miss some of the subs, and would prefer a bit more activity but at the same time posts are far higher quality. Overall I'm really really happy and it's been smooth and welcoming

I only heard about lemmy a few weeks ago I bet there's more like me. I think it's just a question of promoting it

I'd follow that

Thats fine. I've no dad, it helps give me comfort. It's not for everyone though

Ask in dad for a minute they'll know

I'll give it a go thanks 😊