it seems like a lot of people have already posted good responses, so I hope its ok to just say I never knew TWRP was a software, I know it as my favorite band!
me too brother, ive just accepted at this point that I look like a fascist. ive heard it can be mitigated if you do some little accessorizing like black nail polish or piercings, but I'm not sure those are styles I'm ready to embrace yet (I am extremely self conscious)