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There are also sometimes some of the same principles of found family and inclusion that get kids into gangs too. A military unit can very much feel like a family sometimes (depending on the unit). Once the money lures them in the brain washing starts to make them a cohesive fighting unit and that often includes group loyalty and strong feelings of inclusion.

It also most heavily penalizes people who can't afford prolonged legal action and attorneys fees. They are more likely to not even try and get around something like this even if it's technically legally possible.

That's why your body rejects eating a spoon full of cinnamon as seen in that stupid challenge a few years ago.

People are debating you because you're operating under a different definition of "able to pay". Yes technically they can't get blood from a stone. If I make $100 dollars a month they can't charge me $101 for rent or I can't live there. But under the "30%" rule I shouldn't pay more than $30 in rent, the theory being that I need the additional $70 dollars a month for utilities, food, gas etc and in theory I still have some left over for savings, incidentals, etc.If all the landlords in my area are charging $50 in rent for a studio I can technically pay that, but somethings taking a hit in my budget and it probably won't be utilities (running water), food (got to eat), or gas (gotta get to work) so it'll be my savings, incidentals, etc funds. Now I have no savings and can't pay an emergency expense like a flat tire because that extra $20 a month I could have saved went to my rent because I could "technically pay it."

The way your comment is worded makes it sound like you probably think living check to check is a personal choice because someone didn't want to tug on their boot straps hard enough. Should the market adjust if people dont want to pay a certain amount in rent? In theory, yes. The reason rent is skewed away from the consumer in a traditional market adjustment is that people need a place to live. So theyll keep paying till they literally can't and become homeless. If we were talking about the cost of luxury items then the market adjustment would be much quicker because people can afford not to buy parrot petting poles but it's harder to just quit buying it when its food or rent and that makes it ripe for abuse.

Seriously what are people doing with these things that this entire thread seems to think this is typical? It never even occured to me that these could get tangled and I loved playing with them as a child.

I just want to clarify that this may be true for amphetamine based adhd meds specifically. Non-amphetamine adhd meds sometimes require that you don't go off them cold turkey because of risk to your liver.

The invention of currency basically just introduced universal fungibility to a communities barter system by adding 1 additional step.

So employees cost more than just their salaries (if they get things like benefits, 401K match, etc.) So you'd have to cut more than half of his total compensation, which I don't think either of us would be mad about

The military is also really split along certain lines when it comes to D vs R. Higher ranks tend to have more education and some vote along their education lines. More junior people seem to follow point of entry political lines (which for many is admittedly the south but not all).

In elementary school I once asked how chicken eggs get fertilized if their shell is hard (we'd just learned about salmon spawning)...the look my teacher gave me still lives rent free in my head.

Manufacturing facilities often require people with long hair to wear it up to avoid it getting caught in the machinery (especially if there is an assembly line that doesn't stop). We also sometimes require piercings to be taped down for the same reason. Glad youre mostly OK though.

It's basically just dont try to stand, stay flat and roll away from the hole. At least that's how I was taught

Is it not true in the US too? I wouldn't tell someone who wasn't a very close friend that their new outfit looked bad after they'd already bought it. That just sounds like a jerk move even here.

The death valley Germans comes to mind. The theory from the guy who found their bodies was that they thought area 51 would have patrols/guards like US bases in Germany. They didn't realize that area 51 has a largely unguarded area as part of its "official territory" because death valley does the guarding for them.

Great long form write-up from the guy who found them: Here

I dont think it's so much an overall dexterity issue just a practice issue. Someone who doesn't regularly use chopsticks might have really high hand dexterity but they just haven't practiced that finger coordination. I.e. its easier to teach an athlete a new sport but a football players gonna have to practice to play hockey well.

The most common mistake I see with infrequent chopstick users is overgripping and a low grip. If you squeeze too hard it not only fatigues your hand but it actually makes them harder to control, same for choking up on them. If feels more secure but it actually gives you worse control. For any one wondering a high grip and only as tight as you'd hold a pen should make it easier to use chopsticks.

...everyone's point isn't "wow you suck for having only 10k in savings". Everyone calling out the OP is saying "in my country/area cost of living is very high and with 10K in savings I would be in a bit of a panic".

Also telling people to "get educated" while they react to the US cost of living being out of control just makes you sound like a dick.

I recently moved across the US. 15k would be possible but it would be tight (assuming everything you own doesnt fit in the back of your car). Also assuming youre including all moving expenses like reregistering a car, gas to drive across the country, deposits on rent/utilities, a month of overlap on rent, etc. All the little things start adding up quickly with a move that far.

$1100 for a one bedroom? That would be crazy good where I'm at even for a studio where you've got bullets flying at night. I'd blow through 10K in rent in a few months. Where the hell does OP live that they could survive 2 years? There's no way I'm even in the same country as OP.

A lot of American systems are very broken, including our vacation opportunities from work. We get significantly less paid time off compared to most European countries and it can be nice to have them spread out so that there is a chance you get the day off (not all companies here recognize things like labor day anyway).

"Relatively few people" may be the standard for your part of the US but in my experience PA, MD, VA all have mushroom hunting as very normal and popular activities.