Blyfh @ Blyfh @lemmy.world

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Well, that doesn't stop one from liking music, no? Music has such a wide range, there is music without rhythm/beat (or a very different understanding of the concept of "rhythm"), without melody or patterns in general. I think this just narrows down your choice, but doesn't make you hate music.

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I'm not even a linguist but reading this little snippet already makes me want to smash my head against a wall.

You can't just quit it. Vim is one hell of a drug.

Rabies is one hell of a drug.

Wha...? I thought Linux had the little penguin?

Why is the bind in parentheses? Never seen that kind of notation before.

I can relate to feeling like the only one accepting responsibility. I'm making sure that we have everything planned, preparing stuff or cleaning up. But while I certainly don't kill myself to get any girl to look at me, I am interested in them. Plus, I have a libido. So I don't think I have Kleinfelter Syndrome.

I'm sorry for you as it obviously bothers you much.

Right, I was thinking of cinnamon. But when I picture vanilla extract, I see this small dry and black stick that doesn't even resemble a bean.

Oh, that's interesting! So just having a second X chromosome fundamentally changes how the brain works and thinks?

Thanks for the kind words! Two years ago I didn't give a damn about fashion, but with my last two years of high school, something clicked and I'm somehow much more interested in style, expressing yourself and clothing in general. I'm not the daring type, but I'm slowly trying to move in a direction where I could satisfy this need. I experimented with my hair, got me some nice accessories and in general tried to be more conscious about what clothes I wanna have. I don't feel a need to wear a dress. But a nice long skirt would be pretty. Still, I don't feel ready and it's fucking scary, even with your assurances. But it's not like I have to change overnight. I recently made the decision to get some earlobe piercings and I'm at a point where I can't chicken out of it anymore – and when I have them, it would be a waste to let them close because I'm not wearing any earrings. 😁

I agree with your hate towards the fashion industry. I just feel so frustrated with these gender roles and pink=girl, blue=boy stuff. There's also a lot of systematic and internalized misandrism regarding this topic. The ol' judging "that's not manly" or "you look gay" crap. As if being gay is a bad thing. I feel it inside me, this fear of being associated with homosexuality. Which makes it even harder to break these stereotypes. I know I like girls. Why should I need the people around me validating my sexuality with clichés?

I kinda relate to that.

I think it's hard to label something so complex, intimate and psychological as gender. I've become quite envy of women's fashion and I'm still not sure why. I think it's because of my need to express myself, and not really about the gender part. But then again, there are some styles you can't pull of with a man's figure. But I like my sex. I like my masc body and I've never felt dysphoria. I don't want to change. But I feel so limited when looking at men's fashion. Maybe that's because it is? So I'm just envy at the options women can choose from? That would mean that I don't agree with the gender role of men, not the gender. Or maybe it's just a twisted sense of heterosexuality. The fascination of women's beauty through clothing style. I don't know what to make of these feelings. If I could decide my sex/body every morning, maybe I'd choose a female one from time to time.

Still cis tho...

Sorry for the random rant 🙈

Am I stupid or is the vanilla flavor extracted from the bark of the tree, not some beans? Do vanilla plants even have beans?

Just read 5 a day! You'll eventually catch up and there's no hurry.

Depends on what instance and application/website you use. Where are you on?

I guess asensual people exist.

Great! So they'll skip the fossil energy era and jump directly to renewables? We paved the path for them to avoiding another climate change.

What part of that was utopian?

Thanks! :>

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