Yes also the gtk thing. Maybe what i search is that all software ui's should follow a better design template? But i understand the feedback for ui freedom.
for example the corner on the left. Buttons somehow look better.
macOS gives the the feeling of sharpnes. Im so sorry its so difficult for me to discripe it.
In my usecase i tested unraid, ubuntu server and xpenology fits Perfekt for me for example with the photos app. I have a real small NAS DS218j running 24/7. My xpenology server runs like 4 hours oder night or automaticly longer if needed. The smaller one syncs easy to the otter ones. Also create and recover Backups is easy there.
I will force me to test KDE for a longer therm. Thanks for the feedback.