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  • Cigarettes, Alcohol, Gambling, Porn, Birdwatching, Hiking, Video Games, Blogging, Youtubing, Racing....

    Absolutely all of these things can be enjoyed, abused, and everything in between. All of them can lead to problems and/or can be part of a fulfilling and happy life.

    You are approaching this with "She's sick and she did this, disgusting" rather than "she's sick and this is a symptom of that, what a shame"

    Unless you are this harsh to people who have problems with the other things I mentioned and more, then you should evaluate why this specifically bothers you, it may speak to a preconception you have from a place of privilege.

  • Yes, trains!

    Maybe in a very, very large circular track. A huge circle.

    And fast. Super fast. Make them faster by making them lighter. Smaller. Super tiny. So light and fast.

    A teeny, tiny, light train going super duper fast in a very large circle.

    Sure hope it doesn't smack into anything while going top speed. Or maybe it does, so long as we measure it.

  • You're spot on, I no longer deal with said "veil of plausible deniability"

    This is 100% how I approach all sorts of relationships in my life, not just romantic. That's called direct and open communication.

    I will straight up ask (politely) that someone clarify what their explicit stance is, if they refuse or try to play coy about it I simply let them know I don't know where they stand and I don't know what they want.

    I've done this with bosses, siblings, my son, and my partner. I have grown to respect people much more because I understand them better and have also cut out some toxicity from my life that I didn't know was eating away at my happiness.