It was similar for me except that it took 3 months from initial conversations, and no prescription at the end just diagnosis. Took my first pill today, wish me luck.
I've been very upset though that it took this long to look for help, so many of my daily challenges were due to adhd.
If you keep saying no to invitations, people will stop inviting you. See if there is something you can do to enjoy going out a bit more, that should help you say yes more often.
I bought an eufy doorbell and it had a feature that it would only alert you if a person was spotted, well apparently it thinks wheels are heads and it kept sending me notifications all night long every time a car passed by and their headlights reflected off of my car.
That's always been the case.