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  • I’m a grown woman who has a crush, thank you so much 😊

  • Okay, thank you! We said a bit more later and they asked me “Is there anything you’ve never told anyone because people would laugh at you?” That one thing they said just kinda confused me

  • I just remained in silence, then asked them some questions like “So… how’s life?”

    Them: “It’s ok, I have a part-time job and usually just stay at home.”

    (Silence)

    “What kind of things do you do at home?”

    “watch tv. I like movies and whatever Adult Swim show comes on.”

    Then after a while of silence, they told me I didn’t have to do this.

  • I think their tone was kind of matter-of-fact

  • That makes sense. I corrected it because they probably meant an English nose

  • Yeah… I’m not sure, she seems to acknowledge the behavior but doesn’t seem to acknowledge the severity, impact, or morality of it.

  • That makes sense. I mean, my sister has shown me messages from her and this friend, where the friend does indeed admit to doing this, but says “Yeah, well I only do this to people who deserve it” and stuff about people being useless.

    Thanks so much, though :)

  • She keeps saying everyone hates Lena because she acts weird too (vocal stims + tics) and that she will truly like her and that everyone else will hurt her.

  • Isn’t this common with things like abusive relationships too? To trick the S/O into staying because they’re the only one who “understands”/“loves” them?

  • So it’s not just my sensitive nature to think she’s more abusive than anything?

  • Despite living in a Spanish speaking country and moving out as an adult (18), I think my English could be better than my Spanish.

    English was also my native language, though, and I was born to white American parents who spoke English natively.

  • My sister’s friend (age 14) won’t stop saying “What the skibidi” unironically. When she comes over, when I hear her videocalling/texting my sister, etc.

    I genuinely don’t get it. What happened to just saying “what the hell?”

  • Asexual here. Perfect explanation. 😊

  • Thanks, I’m probably a Kinsey 1-2 or “heteroflexible/bi”