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Aurora
Aurora @ AuroraGlamour @lemmy.ml
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would dating my ex friend be worth it, do you think he could love me and would calm down if i said yes or am i just thinking this out of sadness?

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    • would dating my ex friend be worth it, do you think he could love me and would calm down if i said yes or am i just thinking this out of sadness?

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  • OP, you're still barely an adult, but using people to get over a breakup is not ok under any circumstances. I get you're sad, but you're in no place to date anyone right now

    • would dating my ex friend be worth it, do you think he could love me and would calm down if i said yes or am i just thinking this out of sadness?

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  • I'd argue the man is worse. Not saying it's right, but OP is around 18 and I only see that she wanted to date him out of loneliness. What other red flags do you see that I didn't catch?

    • Were you among the oldest or the youngest in school? (Or the middle).

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  • Ugh for sure. I was 19 and a lot of cute guys were 17. Some argue that's acceptable, some not.

    • Can I still consider myself a “young woman” after I turn 24? I turn 24 in March (next month).

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  • Thanks!!

    • Can I still consider myself a “young woman” after I turn 24? I turn 24 in March (next month).

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  • 😮‍💨

    • Can I still consider myself a “young woman” after I turn 24? I turn 24 in March (next month).

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  • Thanks! I’m still young!

    • Mod needed for Toki Pona Lesbians community

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  • I'll ask Ada, or maybe she'll see tomorrow

    • (Meta) What's up with the recent influx of posts here and on nostupidquestions asking borderline insane questions as if written by people who have never encountered another human before?

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  • Hello, fellow weirdo!

    • (Meta) What's up with the recent influx of posts here and on nostupidquestions asking borderline insane questions as if written by people who have never encountered another human before?

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  • Well, she herself says she has no empathy for others and “treats them like objects”. I said mentally ill because she seems to have mood dysregulation problems, no one is ever good enough for her, and she seemed to openly have a breakdown when she posted to her one friend about hating that she was autistic or something. (The post has since been deleted).

    • Permanently Deleted

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  • They also say “fire” like every new episode.

    • (Meta) What's up with the recent influx of posts here and on nostupidquestions asking borderline insane questions as if written by people who have never encountered another human before?

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  • Ohhh. I mean, she was still treating her friends like crap and that says a lot about her

    • (Meta) What's up with the recent influx of posts here and on nostupidquestions asking borderline insane questions as if written by people who have never encountered another human before?

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  • They’re so “usless” without us

    • (Meta) What's up with the recent influx of posts here and on nostupidquestions asking borderline insane questions as if written by people who have never encountered another human before?

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  • What’s crytyping, I’ve never heard that word before 😅

    I would sure hate to be that person, assuming it’s not an alt or someone who’s in on the bait (like their sibling pretending to be the other person)

    • (Meta) What's up with the recent influx of posts here and on nostupidquestions asking borderline insane questions as if written by people who have never encountered another human before?

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  • I know 🫂 It’s horrible. You should also read their other posts.

    Either this is a bot/troll or she is mentally ill with no empathy.

    • (Meta) What's up with the recent influx of posts here and on nostupidquestions asking borderline insane questions as if written by people who have never encountered another human before?

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  • Seems like a bot or an edgy teen.

    • (Meta) What's up with the recent influx of posts here and on nostupidquestions asking borderline insane questions as if written by people who have never encountered another human before?

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  • Yes, her!!

    Or maybe I should say “YES.” 😂

    • (Meta) What's up with the recent influx of posts here and on nostupidquestions asking borderline insane questions as if written by people who have never encountered another human before?

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  • Are you by any chance referring to the user who posted stuff like this? (Not from NSQ but they did post there.)

    • (Meta) What's up with the recent influx of posts here and on nostupidquestions asking borderline insane questions as if written by people who have never encountered another human before?

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  • Oh yeah, that person was banned from my instance 😂

    I genuinely can’t tell if that was a bot, a troll, or an emotionally unstable person.

    From what I remembered, recent account, no profile picture, barely commented.

    • If I go to a user’s profile, I see “banned” by their name. Can this show if they are banned from certain communities or does this mean they are banned from my instance?

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  • Thanks :)