AHamSandwich @ AHamSandwich @lemmy.world

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Are you trolling? I really hope you're trolling since the alternative is this is who you actually are.

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Thanks for the summary, much appreciated.

Thanks for the link. I don't understand your comment, though.

I literally just read about this. There goes that opportunity. Ugh.

LOL

TIL: disinformation is a synonym for "presumptuous asshole". Who knew?

Might I ask about your concerns about Napoli? Are they more than crime?

Are there any areas you'd recommend? We're looking for more community/family engagement and a slower lifestyle, if it helps.

Meaning you already have jobs lined up for this?

Yeah, we already work remotely. My employer is fine with my working anywhere in the world. My husband's employer isn't, but he's working on new employment. We can survive on my income alone.

Maybe focus on being yourselves rather than what you want to be seen as!

Thanks, that's the plan! We're both friendly and outgoing, I think more than most Americans, so I'm hoping that helps.

Thanks again for the info and your encouragement. We experienced a lot of xenophobia when we previously asked on Reddit, so this has been really refreshing.

That's great! We're trying to be forward thinking with his citizenship. I want to be sure he's okay if I were to suddenly die or something.

Any recommendations on locations? We're thoroughly overwhelmed figuring this all out.

100%. We're taking classes and using Babbel already, just in preparation. I doubt we'll be fluent by the time we'd move, but we'll be functional. We just don't want to be more entitled Americans who expect everyone to speak English. We want to do the work.

Thank you so much for a very helpful and detailed response. We're both planning on working remotely and we'd actually prefer to live outside of the cities. I'm good at learning languages and my husband is bilingual and excellent with accents, so we will work at being fluent in the language of wherever we settle.

In your opinion, can we ever be fully accepted by any Italian community or will we always be "that (hopefully) nice American couple". I worry because we're missing all the cultural touchstones gained from growing up in Italy. We've been advised to be persistently nice with neighbors and that bigger cities will have English speaking immigrants we can meet up with, but we really want to integrate, acknowledging it'll take time and effort. Do you think that is possible?

Thanks for your response. The multi-party government is exactly what kept us interested in Italy. We can both work remotely, so that's the plan for income, plus we inherited a bit of money when my husband's father passed. Nothing huge but we won't show up destitute.

Hah, I know exactly what you're talking about. I've been on the "double carbs bad" train for awhile, but I don't care when other people do it.

No hate at all, it's a good question. We're both politically active, we even met at a protest lol. We've been involved in local politics for over a decade.

We're now in our thirties and are just tired of the US employment rat race and general political apathy. I'm not going to pretend we're not being selfish. We're just tired.

Yeah, the Italian subs on the other place weren't very kind when I asked a few years ago.

If I might offer some possibly applicable advice, hire a genealogist if you think you're eligible but are stuck. I spent ten of hours researching what seemed like a dead end. We hired a genealogist who found what I needed in less than two hours and pointed out another eligible line I didn't know qualified.

True, but my husband does for two years prior to getting his citizenship.

Take the West Coast please, we're nicer people than the rest of the country.

I think it was the Trump presidency, which coincided with the pandemic. Every piece of shit who rightfully kept their bad behavior under wraps was shown someone rewarded with the presidency for being an absolute human crusty cum sock and decided to go mask off. Then they banded together, like a hateful, musty pile of jizz saturated teenage laundry.