Kids do not improve a relationship, they test it. And you really sound like your relationship is shaky at best, I'm sorry if that's harsh. It sounds unfair to bring a child into this situation when it's clearly a choice
It's an amazing technique because not only does it trick you into studying, it prepares you for the real world where you'll usually have outside resources available anyway
Yeah, I mean I've never just made the decision that I'm gonna find someone to be with. Just live life and work on yourself, all my relationships have just naturally happened through regular social interaction
Man... What the fuck?