Fair enough, but my thing is for anyone else reading this that doesn't know about cars, the takeaway shouldn't be "you can probably take a Toyota to 250k without changing the fluid so don't sweat it and save your pennies"
it should be "change that fluid when you are able to (search for the right intervals for your car on forums and such, but the right answer isn't "forever", even if that's what the manufacturer says). It's possible it might last until 250k if it's a Toyota and you're lucky; but you never really know, and if you don't you're only guaranteeing you won't be able to rely on that car much sooner than if you did"
Getting on a high horse over hyperbole is silly, but that's what you doubled down on doing, then you used the exact same kind of hyperbole yourself because you were mad. That's the definition of flipping. (And irony.)
You can stop grandstanding now, no-one cared before, except for the bit where you stuck your foot in your mouth, maybe.
Mm iono, kinda sounds like people finally using the concept of salaried exempt positions properly.
For too long, people let themselves get bullied into equating salaried positions with hourly positions, having their time micromanaged and scrutinized when it shouldn't have been the case by definition.
🤣 Hey, remember how Trump separated immigrant children from their mothers, some of whom we lost record of and have no idea if they've been reunited? Remember the physical abuse of immigrants he internally promoted? Remember his pandering to the Klan and neo-nazis and adjacent white nationalist organizations? Remember all the covid deaths he caused with his validating and spreading of lies? His insurrection attempt? Divulging of military strategic information? Don't you think that tips the scales a little bit? All it took was a little bit of pushback to get you to flip on your "never joke about violence" stance. I've never done any of those things. You should re-evaluate your priorities. Unless this is really the hill you want to "die" (😱) on.
I wanna say part of the stipulation was that it couldn't be a surprise bill. Like I had a surgery that the insurance said they would cover 100% after my deductible. I have the surgery, and get bills from every mf in the building that day, basically, 'cause everyone billed individually as contractors in some way. Some contractor nurses they had called in to fill in, the anesthesiologist, supplies used by a doctor, the homeless guy panhandling outside, I forget what else, all billed separately. None of it pre-authorized, and I had already contacted the hospital and my surgeon's office previously to try to prevent some nonsense like this. Anyway, I called and bargained some of it down, as insurance gets a higher bill, which they passed onto me as it wasn't pre authorized, then spent months trying to save up to pay this additional burden of debt. I was looking into getting cheap legal counsel 'cause it was gonna be near impossible, it was a struggle, etc. etc. So I called them back one day seeing if I could negotiate further, got transferred a few times, until someone was nice enough to explain to me what I said earlier, and that if I just ignore it, they'll write it off before the end of the year, but if I could make any kind of payment, as everyone put work in and it leaves "them" high and dry. Just to highlight the gouging, one of my bills before the surgery was over a thousand bucks for some gauze, bandaids, and a cane from my initial emergency visit (also billed separately from the rest of the visit). I saw how much insurance had already paid the surgeon and hospital, and shrugged my shoulders and slept fine that night not giving them another cent. I thanked the Ctulhus for liberals.
Edit: some further advice for the commenter and anyone else, Reddit was a good place to learn tactics on how to negotiate medical debt down, it also gave me a bit of hope, knowing there were plenty of "success" stories. I've been able to negotiate other medical bills down by massive percentages.
They've had to roll back that "lifetime fluid" claim for some cars before due to early transmission failures. It's not a lot of money to change it out.
Any transmission will take damage from not changing out the fluid, you're just reducing the lifespan of it, and that's exactly what they want.
Fair enough, but my thing is for anyone else reading this that doesn't know about cars, the takeaway shouldn't be "you can probably take a Toyota to 250k without changing the fluid so don't sweat it and save your pennies"
it should be "change that fluid when you are able to (search for the right intervals for your car on forums and such, but the right answer isn't "forever", even if that's what the manufacturer says). It's possible it might last until 250k if it's a Toyota and you're lucky; but you never really know, and if you don't you're only guaranteeing you won't be able to rely on that car much sooner than if you did"