Daily Discussion Thread: 🎆🎇🍻 Tuesday, 31 December, 2024
Daily Discussion Thread: 🎆🎇🍻 Tuesday, 31 December, 2024
Today's weather forecast (Melbourne CBD, 3000): min - 17°C, max - 25°C. 25% chance of at least 1mm
Daily Discussion Thread: 🎆🎇🍻 Tuesday, 31 December, 2024
Today's weather forecast (Melbourne CBD, 3000): min - 17°C, max - 25°C. 25% chance of at least 1mm
bro sent an email to ol' boy/girl last night. Basically a rant.. i'll write a list:
I predicted that they'd try and guilt the p's into changing shit just for them and blame me. Don't really know why I'm caught up in this.
Highly manipulative shit.
But why he sent that to the ol' girl is fucked. In early Jan she's about to find out if she's going to be totally blind. We're all stressing about that and there's bro pulling shit like this. She's stressed enough.
I swear SIL is pulling the strings.
I will not make them feel welcome next time I see them.
Thank you for listening :)
This mega pisses me off. In the vast majority of cases being knocked up isn't a great drama. Much sympathy.
Some people......
omg, that's so shameful
and so many hugs and best wishes for your mum , that's just so sad
best wishes for your mum
Thank you it means a lot. It's been so rough on her last thing she needs is this crap.
Man, I wanna smack your bro and Sil lol. What narcissistic assholes 🤦🏼♀️
narcissistic
I think that's exactly what it is unfortunately.
This is my take on this: Bro and wife have had heated words. She's thrown out a "your family treats us like shit and you don't stick up for me. Blah blah blah". He's left the room to write an angry email.
Ignore it. You've got more important things to deal with.
I'm going to agree with this. I've been pressured into something along these lines with friends, but then I dumped her.
I think you're right. Either that or she's "I'm going to get my way and you're not making it happen be a MAN'. Actually tempted to ask her point blank what role she's played in writing those emails. Bro was sending similar entitled shit when they were getting married lol.
I don’t get why having or not having children is such a clout thing. And being empreggened means they get to be in charge or they have a tantrum? Sounds really entitled.
Is there a word like bridezilla but for this situation and both of them?
WTF: 4. AND 5.
I just have too many bad words… In more than one language, LOL.
Methinks it’s a shame there wasn’t several different instances of 3.
HNY! 🎉 To less FWs in 2025.
Have a great NYE everyone. Thanks for the fun times on this site, and putting up with my bullshit.
And if anyone is wondering, my neighbour is watering the lawn FOR THE SECOND FUCKING TIME TODAY!!!!!!
Bless you all and hail Satan :)
I hope you have a FANTASTIC NEW YEARS!
Hail! Edit: Hail Lilith! Where I am not today but am sometimes 😈
Wishing you all a Happy New Year! Have fun and stay safe :-)
Woo Hoo, I am finally splinter free!
I think once the anasthetic wears off it is going to really hurt - the splinter turned out to be over 1cm long and as thick as a matchstick. No wonder it would not come out! I've got another box of antibiotics and an extra dressing, hopefully that will be the last of it.
Really needed that tetanus shot!
owww
It's been a hell of a year! I want to take a moment to say thank you to everyone here for all the support.
This was a difficult year, and quite honestly, I don't think I would have made it without you all ❤️❤️❤️
Happy new year!!!
Happy new year!
I also want to say everyone here is great and has been a huge support network. :)
It's a special place for sure. Like the old internet.
Oh Habib forever in our hearts. Wishing all the best for your future. Inshallah
Thank you ❤️ let's see what the new year has in store for us all!
Happy new year to you too!
Nearly didn’t make it myself because of the shot time I had at work in the last couple of months.
Here’s to a new year and new beginning.
Happy New Year to the Fluffybutt fam. luv you all 😘
yeah , bad year too, spent far too many months in bed with sciatica
but I did do all that sewing and reupholstering
read a few books
and continued learning and growing
I don't think I could have made it without mr seagoon 😭
Well, Happy NYE, have a palliative care admission. I don't need pats, it's been coming for ages, but sheesh.
Feels. Sending you some strength and patience vibes over the aether.
I’m really sorry
Really sorry to hear.
Wishing you a Happy new year.
Rough. Sorry to hear that.
Wishing comfort for you and yours ❤️
Right back atcha 🖤
We got us some franklin's no frills fireworks going off near my house. More sad than anything lol
This whole fucking suburb is the epitome of franklin's no frills.
WTH is a franklins no frills fireworks?
Cheers!
Cheers 🍺
Hey! Why'd you post this picture of me bruh
Cheers! 🍺 🍷
Cheers 🍺
Cheers
Cheers 🍺
Cheers m8 🍻🍻🍺🍔
Cheers 🍺 🥔
Cheeeeeers 🪅🎊🎉
Cheers 🍺
Cheers! 🍻
Cheers 🍺
Cheers from the biz class fizzy wine upgrade from all my work points (even better because i booked this fliht so long ago I forgot about the upgrade. Thanks past me!!)
Cheers to smart past you 🍺
Yesterday the man and I had a bet on the cricket. If Australia got up, he has to make me a cuppa in the mornings for the rest of his holidays. Fuck yeah. Who's laughing all the way to the couch now? Me.
MY PINA COLADA GOON BAG IS STILL FROZEN! THIS IS A TRAGEDY! A TRAVESTY! A WAR CRIME!
Just casually browsing here from the Northern hemisphere, I've never been to Australia. Enjoy the warm summer weather, I just had to deal with frozen car windows.
To the point: What the hell is a goon bag and where do I get one? A pina colada goon bag sounds absolutely delicious.
Goon bag = box wine. An inflatable foil sack that makes a handy pillow if you drink the whole thing and retain enough dexterity to blow it up. 😺
A goon bag is box wine, generally speaking, very cheap and easy. So you get a box of wine, and in the box is a bag of the wine itself. A goon bag is that bag of wine. A pina colada goon bag, is the same but instead of wine, it's a premixed pina colada 😂 I buy it from Aldi when they have them, they also have a Mojito one I want to try.
During house parties, the goon bag gets pegged to the washing line (usually a hills hoist), and everyone can get some from there 😂 it's very Aussie to have a goon bag pegged to the hills hoist for house parties, or at least it was when I was a teen in the 2000s.
As someone who grew up in the northern hemisphere, it's weird it being so hot this time of year even after a decade of living here I can't get used to it. So enjoy your frozen windows!
Make a punch bowl. Use goon bag to cool punch bowl until it is drunken and goon is thawed. Pour goon out into bowl and drink some more
Hello from Melbourne Airport! Hope you all have a lovely and safe last evening of the calendar year, no matter if you do or don't celebrate! Lots of love and warmth!
Where are you off to and happy new year?
Bon voyage and hny 😘😘😘
I feel some point in February I blinked and when I opened my eyes it was New Year’s Eve. Where did the year go, I swear it’s faster every year. There’s been some ups and downs, and lots of things same as ever that wish I had managed to change, but it was not to be, such is life. Anyway, cheers DT. Hope you are enjoying the night whether it’s staying in or going out, whether you are partying hard or in quiet contemplation. May 2025 be a year of good things ahead.
What a weird dream. The feeling of joy after breaking up with my last ex. Fuck it. I'll take it lol
That's when you know you did the right thing.
hugs 😘
PRAISE THE QUEEN OF GOON
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Shucks. A lot of useful information up here. A lot of useless too. A bit for everyone.
All praise the almighty Ceo!
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Mega fortnight of roadtrip family visits done. Looking forward to home now. Actually excited about doing a but of a detox and cleaning out the kitchen and pantry over the weekend. I knew I was burned out but not how bad. Bring on 2025. The year of the weekend! (I.e. no overtime or work on the weekend)
I've had dreams about falling
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From every precipice
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Every cliff and yet still
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Ever always returning the fool
I've had dreams about flying
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From out this life
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From strife and feeling
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That the air on my face is cool
So I'm thinking Wallace and Gromit tomorrow morning at Cinema Nova. It will be a good first movie going experience for the boys as it doesn't go for too long and will end before nap time.
I just hope not too many other people are there just in case things don't go smoothly but maybe the novelty will get them through
Can recommend. Can't recall any off colour humour and plenty to keep adult Aardman fans interested.
I decided to ask my kids, "hey, someone in melb Aussie zone has mentioned that they want to take their kids to see the Wallace and grommit movie for their first cinema experience ever.. whaddaya reckon?" Their responses were "Oh yeah I reckon they'll love it. There's heaps of plot twists and cute characters and some cool references" (from 12yo Elder, who felt a little anxious about the cinema itself and wanted to leave halfway through but I convinced him to stay and he was glad he did. He gets anxiety so it's a gentle pushing and toughening of his boundaries at this stage). Miniest said, "that's a great idea, it's easy and good, probably the most perfect thing I've seen in a cinema." (From 10yo Warrior Princess child). My kids are a bit kooky (they are mine lol), YMMV, but I thought their reviews might be of interest.
That's good to hear. The boys are 2 so they won't follow along too much but at a runtime of 80 minutes they may not get tired of things too quickly.
And it feels like a good movie to say was their first. The big kids' movie of the moment is Sonic 3, and whilst Paddington 3 comes out tomorrow as well, it might be a bit much for the boys too
I grabbed a copy of that the other day from the old interwebs. Glad to hear it's a good movie. Been looking forward to it for ages!
Little tomatoes are forming!
Pest control man came. He couldn't find it unfortunately. He hung up odour absorbent bags, according to the packaging it "doesn't just make odours", it "eliminates them!". Seems a bit ambitious to me. But fingers crossed it works
He said there's definite signs of both mice and rats up there. Droppings and insulation that had been lifted up where they've probably burrowed in to nest. He also said there's a massive hole up there which is where they'd be getting in. Apparently it's so large he didn't even need to use his torch. That's promising, isn't it?
Not a possum which is good. That means the smell should go away in a week or two. But not great he couldn't find it and suspects there are more. And that there's a gigantic hole in the roof
Sigh
I have now changed the sheets & vacuumed the house. Out with the old 2024 dust, in with the fancy new 2025 dust!
Yes! I have decided my small thing to begin the year with is clean sheets, so I have done that.
I even mopped the floor. It's really not something that happens often.
I did have some plans for mopping too, but that never eventuated. Oh well, there's always next year!
Today is such a weird day. Super lazy and feels like im waiting for the event tonight.
Off an hour early today. Heading home before it's too crazy in the city 🎉🎉🥰
Edit: PSA. No trams between ANZAC station and Melbourne Central station from 4.30pm to 430am
How come?
E: not sure why I needed the down vote. I was asking about why the tram isn't running. Arsehole.
Just new years eve things
Sitting out front of my doctors surgery because if I don't see her tonight, I can't see her till 2nd week of new year.
And I need to catch up with her before then. I got here early on purpose because there's going to be a mad rush of people.
Can't say it's exactly exciting or how I wanted to spend my evening:(
40 degrees Saturday AND Sunday? The weekend looks disgusting.
Excellent! Saturday night in prahran it is!
Oh great. Well at least I can stay inside watching the test match as long as it doesn’t get rained out as per usual in Sydney.
Oh yuck.
Oh FUCK OFF. I have houses to see and pokemon to catch.
Cool, guess I'm cancelling any plans I had and sitting at home in the nude ha
Kiddie fireworks just going off. Panicked cat count legging it over my back fence for the evening so far - 1.
Lol! I was like is that thunder?? And then I saw the time and realised the kiddie fireworks were going 😂
Last hope for the year done.
Bread, peanut butter, chippies, mushroom soup and baby peas.
Maybe I should have also picked up more chicken schnitzel but I’ll leave that for next time.
Also Aldi gravy is pretty good!
My daughter's friend got a new puppy and there was a name off. I put my bid in. Anyway it came 2nd. Arlo is his name but I refuse to except defeat. Conversation goes like this:
Me: How's Gus going?
Friend: good
Friend to kid: Your mum knows his name isn't Gus
Kid: Yeah. She knows
Me: How's Gus going?
My name is better.
Nope it isn't. Gus is good - easy to shout out across the dog park. Arlo is just not as shoutable.
If we’re going by shoutability, you can’t go past screaming Fenton in the park.
Gus is more guttural. Arlo is pissy.
If I could name a pet, I'd choose a silly people name like Edith, Brittany, or Dorothy, or like Martin, Jeffrey, or Jason. Peter. Sandra. Just like, normal generic people names. I think it's hilarious when pets have names like that! Gus is so good! I vote for Gus, 100%
My Void has the most human name I've ever gifted.
Bill and Ted
Allie
Oscar
Casey
Is Gus a golden retriever? He sounds adorable.
Nah. I don't know what he is but he's a Gus for sure.
cat will end up being called "Arrrgh" , then Arse when he's naughty
Just remembered, wasn't there a monster on Troll Hunters called Arrrgh? 👹 🙂
Can I go to bed yet?
of course
good night and happy new year 😘
Haha sadly not. Dog will freak when fireworks go off, if dog comes into bedroom cat will declare the treaty in abeyance and the 100 years war begins again.
10 more mins lol
Struggle street!
You know… I miss things like No Frills and Black & Gold. Seriously not a fan of the Colesworth duopoly
I see a lot more full trolleys in aldi than I do coles these days. We are also lucky enough to have a Foodworks and an IGA.
I’ve started to be able to kind of make it to Aldi (on a good day if I really push it and have recovery time) but no idea if it’s going to stay that way.
Also there’s no way I’ll be able to carry a full shop
Black and gold still exists
Nice, I don’t have one here
External cupboard for washing machine ?!?
Like a dirty little secret
Pun intended
Party next door loud… I’m staying at home and inside being a square thanks
Happy new year guys!
Happy Early New Year. The kids lost interest in the ABC NYE show, which we all used to love. They had proper kids entertainment during the early fireworks (think Bluey and other popular performers doing songs kids like) but they've foregone that in recent years in favour of more adult indigenous awareness type artists. I get the need to show awareness of the issues facing indigenous people, but maybe not during the kids part of the show?
Anyway, I love you guys and hope 2025 is a better one for all of us.
Happy New Year. Love you all so much. 😘😘😘
I know I posted this last week, but now it's more visually satisfying....
Being a clutz has paid off. Yesterday I went to an all you can eat buffet with some friends. The food was not very good. If you left any food, they would weigh it and charge you an amount based on that.
I grabbed my plate and somehow, I just lost my grip and it bounced against the side of the table. The really shit cuts of meat that were close to inedible fell on the floor.
They didn't make me eat them off the floor thankfully.
I still quote this to this day 😂
Happy New Year! May 2025 be safe, prosperous and enjoyable for us all!
Is it too late for coffee?
My dad told me about his coffee drinking habits. He drinks one upon waking. Then one at 11am at work. Then at lunch time. Then in the evening. We think he might also have ADHD.
Right now he's standing on the roof blowing the gutters, with a fleece jacket on, probably to avoid getting sunburnt. This man has never worn sunscreen in his life. Yesterday he painted the fence. Last week, he polished the garage door (who polishes their garage door?!). He can't take a break and do nothing. Absolute madman. Must be the coffee.
I need your dad to come to my place and do all my house maintenance chores. I didn’t even know garage doors could be polished, sounds classy.
I’m about to make another coffee if that’s of any l help.
When I’m working I’m usually having 3 or 4 coffees a day but they’re taken very early.
Edit: to balance it out I’m sitting down with animal crossing.
PFFFT
ANY HOUR IS A GOOD HOUR TO HAVE COFFEE
I wish I had his motivation to do chores hahahaha
Exactly!
Me too, I don't know how he does it.
My 2c: if you're staying up til midnight or later, go for that coffee!
Caffeine doesn't have too noticeable of an effect of me, though, so I am biased. I suspect it probably does something subconsciously that I don't realise, but as far as conscious effects go, sometimes I'll feel a little more awake for 5 or 10 minutes max. But it feels akin to skulling some water, eating a banana, going outside into the sunshine and saying "I'm awake now!"
Cue: "I'm a social (coffee) drinker. I can quit anytime I want!". Seriously though, I usually only drink coffee cause I like the taste and it's what everyone else does. I don't even have coffee in my new house, I basically only get cafe coffee, and usually only once every week or two, and mostly as a social thing
I wish coffee made me that productive!
I used to down about 5 or 6 a day before the adhd medication.
Plus red bulls.
My hands used to shake, but oddly enough I was incredibly calm...
I've been doing a big reminisce and reflection tonight
Happy New Year, DDT fam!
I don’t speak about it much, but this year has probably had both my highest of highs and lowest of lows. Thanks to everyone for making this such a great place both for staying generally/mostly upbeat and positive and for solid discourse when it comes up. I really enjoy reading everyone’s comments on the daily, even if it’s just about life in general.
I really wish everything the best that 2025 has to offer you, no matter how big or how small. We’re all doing our best.
Big love. 🖤
Beep Beep 🚚
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So many sirens going off, never ending, wtf is going on this new years.
Lots of people around my way seem to be setting off their own, and plenty of sirens too.
Seems average to me
On a packed tram home, shoulder to shoulder, person across (approx 25f) from me just unwrapped a hungry jacks type burger and started chomping away. It smells a lot (normal burger smell). This is pretty strange and poor form right??
I don't mind if people eat, as long as they're not making those gross sucking noises as they chew. And mouths closed when you chew people. MOUTHS FUCKING CLOSED!
I'm sorry for my outburst.
I agree with you.
My dad unfortunately eats l like that I have to try and distract myself. It’s so disgusting.
Very poor form. Eating on public transport (except in a properly appointed dining car) is VERBOTEN for a lady. Yes, it's the smell and and difficulty on disposing of the rubbish plus handwashing etc. Gross too from a microbiology perspective.
Was on a tram last year where a girl sitting alone in the first seat behind the driver (no.11 tram) was chomping on KFC. When she'd finished all she was going to eat, she dropped the bones & rubbish in the bag and then tossed it over her head behind her without looking. Hit 3 people before making it to the floor. If looks could kill then I'm still surprised she made it off the tram alive.
Thank you for chiming in. I was starting to feel crazy with all this gaslighting
One ambo driving past. No fireworks yet.
Currently playing Lego Skywalker Saga with A Die hard movie on.
Sadly no booze, forgot all about it.
Gotta remember at midnight to go to the building hallway and look through the windows to the city, gotta get my new years fireworks fix lol
Happy new year everyone!
I’m disappointed in my cordless stick vac. It seemed to work well at first and I liked that it was relatively quiet but it doesn’t pick up anything… or maybe it just struggles with larger particles like tracked paper cat litter pellets. But that’s what I got it for!
The Big W corded stick was literally half the cost, crevice tool is broken and the thing is kind of falling apart in half but still it puts the fancier model to shame. Sucks large stuff up no problem.
Unfortunately it’s incredibly loud, requiring me to wear ear protection and scares the cat. So it’s not easy to vacuum
Um, have you washed the filter? Not just emptied the bag - the filter screen needs to be rinsed and dried too. Also the rollers might be full up with floof and need to be combed free. Failing that, there might be blockage in the tube that connects the bag to the business end - poking with a chopstick from the underside might help a bit.
I should try that. It was much weaker from the start and there doesn’t seem to be a blockage but I haven’t washed the filter yet
I need a new vac, so I won't be getting the Kmart one lol. I have a hand-me-down phat-ass Dyson, but the bucket clip is broken, so I have to hold the bottom until it's over a trash bag to empty it. I think half the apartments dust particles make it up my nose each time lol. I just wish I could fix the bucket because I like the Dyson, I'm very grateful I was given it, even though it was used for years beforehand.
I wonder if there is such a thing as a GOOD cheap vac sigh
I don’t think there is. I always want to get a proper vac and not cheap junk but finances
Over half way through squid game two, and it doesn't need to exist. Almost identical to first season so far disappointed
Oh man, we smashed it in a few nights and were sad there wasn't more
I'm still watching it and enjoying it tbh. I feel the story is almost identical though. Idk just a bit disappointed
Lame AF I'll give it a miss then
I had someone flog my plates and go on a speeding/red light running hoon run. Got it dismissed but was still a headache and I had to pay for the new plates. Seems unfair.
May as well put the details into the crimestoppers portal.
Round one Boomies survived. I have the Cult on but strategically throwing single biscuits for them to chase was probably more helpful.
I think we're up to about round 17. The cat is in nuclear disaster mode, concealed in a secret bunker and not coming out for anything.
Happy New Year, DT!! An hour and half away from midnight here but not sure I'm gonna make it!!
If it makes you feel any better, 1 and a half hours will mark 3am. I don't think I'm going to make it, either!
(Btw we're all in next year's thread if you want to time travel and say hi)
So glad I never married my ex. They proposed just after HS, and I purchased the ring they picked out. $35 bucks.
I burned it along with the lovebomb letters and keepsakes they'd given me, and threw it all in the trash, after we broke up.
Now I live in an apartment, with my partner and cat. We drink and go out, we stay in and chill together. He hasn't forced me into a shape to fit him. It's liberating to find a person who gives you permission to be yourself, unapologetically. I don't need a partner, but I found who I am because they encouraged me to do so.
Just a little appreciation of the way my life changed.
Now to pawn off the el cheapo gold and diamond necklace my ex gave me lol
I’m glad you someone who uplifts you like this, enriches your life, and you don’t have to be a shell of yourself. I hope to find the same!
A partner, I've learned, is someone who helps you be more "you". I hope you find that someone too, we all deserve to have someone love us for being unapologetically us
You're a team and that's how it should be. 💕
Never quite got what that phrase meant until this relationship haha now it all makes sense!
That's excellent to hear :)
Spud has really sprouted. She's been studying and been acing it. So happy for her. 🙂
Thank you :3
That's so beautiful 🥹🥹
How did you meet your partner?
I was an operations/billing consultant, 6 years in at an old job, and he was a temp in the call centre (where I had initially started). The works Xmas party was coming up, and because we (call centre, credit/payment plans, and billing/backend) were a small team, we didn't feel it was fair to exclude the temps from the Xmas party. So we successfully lobbied to have them invited too, it was some ritzy expensive place near docklands. Anyway, my partner (obvs not at the time) and I hit it off that night and I spent the night at his place 👀😅
Had to go home the next day to a very angry ex, as she was still living with me while her parents set up their bungalow for her 😂😂😂😂 once she moved out in the new year (2019), that temp needed a pkace to stay as his share house fell through. He never left. He was meant to go back to Perth and then onto Canada for a job there. But yeah, what was a temporary stay with a FWB has turned into a 5 year relationship hahahaha now we have a cat so I guess we're serious LOL
sorry for the long story haha! I just think it's a funny story heh
so many hugs, so happy you found the right guy 💖
one thing I don't understand, it just doesn't make sense, these people choose us for all our traits and personality and what we do, yet they try to crush that and stop us from doing those things
Ikr. In the case of my ex, I think they were always MTF trans, and before they realised, they took me and tried to force me into what they wanted to be themselves. Besides the actual sexual crimes they commited against me, I think that was theit reason for trying to make me more "feminine". Their reason was they were helping me find my "girlhood" after my mum forced me to dress like a boy when I was a teen so men didn't stare at me lol.
One extreme to another gosh. Childhood trauma can really set up some nasty adult relationships. I've found a happy medium now dw my wardrobe has lovely sundresses, skirts, pants, and shirts haha