Let them join in on the fun!

I’d rather have an alt account on another instance

Good reason to swap to instances that aren't prudes

Who wants to scroll past porn in between news and memes? I don’t understand that level of thirst
- Just disable nsfw in your settings?
  Non nsfw instances like blahaj also have porn comms, you just don't see them in your feed because they're not as popular as the ones in lemmynsfw.
  Defederating well moderated instances like lemmynsfw ultimately does nothing but harm Lemmy overall
- You can just turn off or blur NSFW posts in your settings. Also why when you create an account it asks you if you want to optionally enable NSFW content. That's an already solved problem. You don't need to defederate for that.
- Adults with healthy control of themselves and a respect for reality
It's more a case of time and place, I don't want porn when I'm browsing the news, and vice versa.
- then literally just don't check the "show nsfw" content when you sign up. I beg of you just to open your settings a single time and see what's there, it's not complicated.
It's not (only) the instances, it's the law prohibiting (some) these instances from allowing minors to access porn.
- In that way lol. If they don't enable the checkbox, they can simply navigate to the website themselves.

What kind of nsfw are the memes? I have nsfw disabled on my acct because I didn't want to scroll through porn in public.

They're not particularly explicit. Most of them are just talking about sex. There was some toothbrushes that got reported for being too risque once though.
I would recommend keeping the blur on and subscribing and then you can ignore it all unless you're in subscribed and even then it's just suggestive talk of normal looking memes mostly.
- There was some toothbrushes that got reported for being too risque once though.
  I just can't escape the Monogatari references

they defederated?

You can't even say "bitch" on lemmy.ml
"a female dog" for my .ml friends
- For your viewing pleasure I said bitch
- that's pretty boring.
  well at least we can enjoy their content without their limitations, since we see it from a different instance.
I think it was something to do with child porn being posted to lemmynsfw?
- Not childporn. There's a community called "adorableporn" that originally had, as part of its description "childlike" (other descriptors were things like "cute") while being very clear that everyone on that community was 18+ (and even validating questionable posts with age verification). The wording of "childlike" has since been removed to ensure no confusion.
  There was no instance of childporn being allowed.
- Straight up not true lol

Literally this. I was kinda bummed out that nsfw instances are blocked on my instance. I can use alt accounts tho.

join me on https://tsck.org I'm fine with nsfw